I ask my girlfriend about her past with this guy that wrote her all the time on internet and so on. She tells me that they were good friends from college program in orlando fl. I was like ok fine whatever. One day I find pictures of her in her past naked on a bed in orlando from one of the guys friends. We talked about it and she try to say nothing went down. Then today I ask the guy about the picture and his past relationship with my girlfriend. He was real and told me her never had sex with her but they were only close. Then he told me that she slept with his best friend/cousin behind his back. Even after that they stayed good freinds. When I told my girlfriend about this she tried to say that the guys was lying. My girlfriend has lied to me before and hid things from me like talking to her x on facebook and other lies. I got over that stuff but do anybody think I should trust her or should I move on?
2007-02-27 16:19:37 · 13 answers · asked by eyecandy0905 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only thing i would tell you is BE CAREFUL and don't always jump to it that she is always lying but don't just believe everything as she says. Just remember tif something she says is kind of does not have a good vibe to it then you should find out the truth. and to be honest ask her i mean have a talk with her and find out why she is lying to you about things cuz maybe she is ashamed of things that she done and she may also think that you will think different of her for somethings also. cuz guys/girls always say that is won't how they feel for you they just want to know the truth but then after you do tell them somethings or somehow feeling change. so just talk to her and she what she says. ALWAYS REMEMBER THE TRUTH HURTS!!!!
2007-02-27 16:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better move on. You can't trust someone who has an intention to lie. I had the same problem with my bf before. I lied about my family background but he understood my reason though it took me a long suffering to let him understood me and got back to normal. Im not a pathological liar. Although \at present I don't feel he's the same as before because our relationship has damaged due to the lies I kept for 4yrs. I didn't lie to him about another guy that's probably what he considered. I realized then that if you TRULY love someone there is always honesty and sincerity. You do not want a relationship that is base on lie(s) do you?
I am trying to let him love me again the way he used to and that's my problem now........ good luck!
2007-02-27 16:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by Arianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is most probably ashamed of what she did.
And she didn't feel that what happened in her past as got anything to do with you after all this all had happened to someone else.
She is trying to change and give her a chance she knows that she was wrong and she learn from her mistakes everyone makes mistakes
2007-02-27 16:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to be blinded by emotion, but clearly your girlfriend is not being honest with you--and she seems to be a bit fast. You should definitely move on, and think about why you chose this girl, so you'll get a better one next time.
2007-02-27 16:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by thinkingriddles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talking to her ex on Facebook?
Whoa buddy, I see red flags going up everywhere.
If she couldn't be honest when you confronted her about the dude from Orlando, who knows what else she's hiding?
If you really feel you can't trust her, you need to cut your losses and end the relationship.
2007-02-27 16:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it fairly is ultimatum time. i in my view does no longer decide for to stay with a guy who replaced into cheating on me, and that's what he's doing. i could tell him the two we bypass to counseling and he stops this habit, or i'm isolating from him. At this factor have not got self assurance his claims, because of the fact he's shown himself untrustworthy. have you ever talked with your mom or another relied on lady? it could assist you to get a plan mutually if youin case you decide on for to chop up. Their help would be effectual regardless. i could consistently desire the marriage could properly be saved, and now and back it takes "difficult love" to get somebody to awaken.
2016-09-30 00:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats tough!! I was married to a guy...and after being with him for a few months, found out that his whole life basically was a lie! (we're not together anymore) And that was really hard to deal with. If shes going to lie about little things....what else is she going to lie about? Maybe just wait it out for a little longer, if you really like her, and if she continues to lie, then maybe it isn't fair to you to be in a relationship with her. Follow your heart!
2007-02-27 16:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by tadreams95 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It appears to me that since you have caught her lying, that you can't trust her. Move on you can't trust her. I do not know her age, but it seems as though she may still have some wild oats to sow.
2007-02-27 16:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you love her? if u do. talk it out with her. ask her why she keeps lying to u about all that. maybe she might be scared that u might leave her or some thing. talk it out with her before u can conclude if you can still trust her or not.
2007-02-27 16:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by SS3_GrL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. one she could do the same thing to you, two, the lies could get worse and worse through time...is that really worth living with?
2007-02-27 16:23:52 · answer #10 · answered by Emilie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋