He's 19 now...and im 15. IM NOT THAT YOUNG. How should interpret this.. does he like me? He called me cute and ive had the biggest crush on him for the longest time. Do you think im too immature for him? I feel like he's treating me like his younger sister or something...someone who watches out for me a lot. The other day he asked me why i was sad.. saying stuff like "well i don't want to see you sad.. and blah blah blah"
God he's churning my stomach like butter.
2007-02-27 16:07:27 · 14 answers · asked by augustina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*i'd totally GO FOR you... sorry typo
2007-02-27 16:10:11 · update #1
He is too old for you I think. Belive it or not, there is a big diffrence from 15 to 19, and I mean sexually, because that is all men wnt at that age. Period. He says "he would totally go for you" because he would now, but he wants you to make the first move so he won't feel so bad for coming on to you. He wants to have sex with you, and if he does, that will probably be it because he won't exactly want to go steady. You will be in school, he's at work or college whatever and will connect personally to someone his age. And also he won't want to bring you around his friends or to parties because everyone would give him sh!t
and embarass him. Oh, and I'm sure he likes the fact he makes you think about him. He has alot more experience than you, so try not to get your feellings hurt.
2007-02-27 16:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by Azalea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry if this will make you sad .. but u need help with this situation. i am 15 too i think that this guy does feel like hes ur big brother he looks out for you and he's caring and all but he doesnt have feelings for you. He said that if he was ur age he would like you but he's 19. I personally think there is nothing wrong with 15 year old having a crush on a 18-19 year old, as long as your mature and responsible enough. My last answer is that he doesnt seem like he feels for you that way. don't give up on other guys though.. there are lots of fish in the sea.
2007-02-28 00:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes saying he finds you attractive but right now your too young, he could go to jail and be branded a sex offender for the rest of his life. If you really care about him just wait until your 18 and see if you both still have the same feelings. Until then just enjoy being friends. People that start out friends and then become romantic can make the best lovers!
2007-02-28 00:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's that right now, that's a large age difference. When he's 40, and you're 36, it's not a big deal, but it's just the difference in maturity and also, a majority of it is how society views it. If he's still interested maybe when you're 18-20, that might be a better time.
2007-02-28 00:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm been it that situation too, but the other side. Which means, he likes you, its that he doesn't want to go to jail. Plus its something you are not going to want to be in anyway, he can do a lot of things you can't, and you would be insecure after a while, never knowing where he is, at clubs, maybe hooking up with girls his own age, or older.
2007-02-28 00:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by Brendan 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No hes 19 your 15 get over him. But to answer your question let me say that means hes not going to be going out with a 15 year old when hes 19, it makes him look like a loser (no offense to you) he will go out with someone his age not a sopohmore in highschool.
2007-02-28 00:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by lsurocks1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to sum up what others have already said. (and what i was going to say before i read the answers).
First fiteen versus ninteen is not a big age gap. However as others have said you are under 18 which could land the guy in trouble he could be classed as a child abuser or sexx offender should you get together as a couple.
nothing wrong with hanging out together as friends as long as you both are OK with that and you have friends around you when you are out so the two of you are not alone.
as others have said you are jail bait. but if you can maintain a friendship until you are 18 and beyond then if you are both single at that point may be see if either of you want to move to a couple from just friends.
the line "i'd totally..." generally means he thinks you are attractive, but he does not want to take it any further as he knows this could land him in hot water legally with a criminal record just for dating you regardless of the fact it may be mutual between you.
so as i said remain friends but have others around you when you are out otherwise this could be misconstrued by any outsiders that may see you together. or alternatively just get him out of your life full stop, but secretly hope that in a fewyears you can meet up and talk see if a spark of friendship remains, if so then great you will both be over 18 consenting adults so nothing stopping you getting together as a couple if that is what you want to do.
if he treats you like his little sister that may be the only way he can feel comfortable around you without him getting in to trouble (to be polite and over simplistic).
good luck. if in doubt talk to your parents which evere you feel most comfortable talking to. ask there advice, they may agree for you to see him as friends only or they may consider supervised or not dates. assuming you want to start dating.
it is your life, though this is socially unacceptable if you know your mind and he is not forcing the issue but you want to, then you have to go with your heart. I speak sadly as a guy who has let too many chances slip by me. i'm now 33 and single. I speak here to you as if you were my daughter. I would want to meet the guy and get to know him before i would let you date him. it would be an outright no if he were 8 to ten years older, it would make me think why can't he get a woman his own age? is he only interested in school girls?
this is somthing that a parent would get a feel for after talking to the guy for a while.
you have to do what makes you happy. not what society expects as the norm or legal where love is concerned. though teenage crushes and loves are often no more than raging hormones as your body adjusts to the changes puberty throws at it.
true love comes with age and maturity 25 to 35 is when you can tell that it is love and not infatuation.
whatever you decide and i'm hoping here you go for the society norm and steer clear of him until you are both older. good luck stay safe.
2007-02-28 00:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
one your jailbait. i know 15 versus 19 doesnt sound like alot, but mentally it is. not saying your immature or anything, but try to look at it from his perspective. if you dont just come on out and talk to him, he will definitley think your too immature for anything, so its best not beating around the bush. maybe he says it hoping you will say something.
best thing i can say is... be straight up,. because people who are older can just say it. if you arent ready to say it to him, then nothings ever gonna happen between you, and youll keep torturing yourself.
good luck
2007-02-28 00:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by midnyghtcloud 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may not feel that young, but he knows that you're not legal for him! Things like that can get a guy in HUGE trouble!! Whether he digs you or not... Just let it go...
2007-02-28 00:13:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it feels like he's treating you like his little sister then thats how he's really treating you. dont make it into something its not.
2007-02-28 00:11:41 · answer #10 · answered by signalfirst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋