My exgirlfriend and I broke up like five months ago because of some issue that she was having with her ex boyfriend. We were happy together but he kept getting in the way and she felt that it would be good if we went our own ways so she could get things with him squared away. I think she is single still and never got back with him. Would it be weird to email something simple just to say whats up?
2007-02-27 16:05:57 · 12 answers · asked by curiousone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nah u might as well. mabye she misses you too, and if not then at least youll know.
2007-02-27 16:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I see nothing wrong with it, but honey, make sure you are doing it for the right reasons. It's obvious you still care for this girl, but does she still care for you? There's a big difference in saying "what's up" and "want to hook up cuz you aren't with the other guy". Don't sell yourself short by being second best honey. If you start doing that, it becomes a habit. And the only reason I caution you is because I've seen it a million times. My daughter use to drive me insane. She had one of those charasmatic personalities that everyone was drawn to. She went through boyfriends like napkins, yet she never wanted to break anyone's heart and always wanted to maintain a friendship with them. What she did was end up breaking everyone's heart because by remaining friends, she always gave them this glimmer of hope that maybe...someday...she'd change her mind. Don't be the man waiting for maybe. Write her and say hello, but have your intentions in the right place. If you don't feel that you can do that, then maybe it's not such a good idea.
Whatever you decide, I wish you the best.
2007-02-27 16:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no harm in sending her an email. Make the first move at rekindling your friendship first. Ask an update on her life. By her response you'd know if she's still interested in you. From there you'd know the possibility of getting back together as a couple. Good luck!
2007-02-27 16:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by thatsraven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all up to you. You have to think about what you want and maybe she feels the same too, but youll never know unless you try. A little saying I heard once that stuck with me was....."Never give something up you cant go a day without thinking about."
2007-02-27 16:10:47 · answer #4 · answered by chernz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont see why you shouldnt...as long as you didnt part on bad terms, you were together and cared about one another at one time, so emailing her to say hi and ask her how shes doing wouldnt be considered a bad thing. i just wouldnt try and get back with her unless she sends you a signal for you to do that....i suggest being casual and telling her whats going on in your life and ask her how hers has been and just catch up with her-AS FRIENDS...dont bring dating into it unless she does
2007-02-27 16:16:06 · answer #5 · answered by little missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still have feelings for her, why not say hi? I dont see how that could hurt. But keep it light...Im not telling you to try and start your relationship up with her. If you think you cant "handle it", then just dont say anything.
2007-02-27 16:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
should you? should you not?
questions you already have answers for...
what have you got to lose bro?
an email to see how someone is doing... is an email showing that you care... do you see something wrong?
All I can see is, you want to say hi and see how she is doing.
Go with your heart, not with your mind, otherwise you'll have too many doubts.
After all... you are just saying 'hello'.
2007-02-27 16:11:45 · answer #7 · answered by calv83luc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya sure I think that you should go right ahead and email her but dont be needy just act like a friend wanting to say hi
2007-02-27 16:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by Lvg619 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart don't let this be one of those things in your life that you think back on and say dang i should have done this .
2007-02-27 16:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you still have feelings for her than its just not to say hi and you know it (why lie need a beer). if you got feelings for her hit her up see what she up to maybe go out chill do somethin to try to find out whats going on, but dont kid yourself be true to what you feel and follow your heart
2007-02-27 16:14:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really. Just dropping by 2 say hi i fine
2007-02-27 16:09:25 · answer #11 · answered by MIA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋