one is too ugly, one is married, one is on a catheter, one is too young, one is to closed up emotionally, I am so depressed, I have dated in this past year at least 25 men, and none are worth thinking about, I look around and everyone has a home, a life, and I struggle, working, paying bills, lease car, rented apt, would'nt anyone feel depressed?
2007-02-27 15:54:03 · 16 answers · asked by kathleen h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey there, guess what everybody else is doing?
We all have to work for a living and have to pay our bills.
Your luck won't change until you change your attitude.
Feel depressed - it shows, the guys can tell,
so they are not interested.
Stop looking for a big fat wallet and look for a man
that can love YOU!
2007-03-01 13:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems you probly need a well deserved break.your inspiration is the ability to do all these things without a man.and 25 men,wow thats a lot of negative in a year!!yes i suppose anyone would feel depresed.cant say as if you are picky cause married,ugly,and emotionally small dosent leave much room for a date.you know you are #1,dont forget or be afraid to put yourself there. YOU MATTER MOST!!! by the way im 46 and single guy. no hangups! later.
2007-02-28 00:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by nohorseflis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to admit, I am only in my teens and I fear of that happening to me. Not that it is the worst thing in the world, but just the fear of being lonely. I am really sorry. But seriously 25 men! And not even one worked out? This is going to sound dumb, but are your parents divorced? Because it sounds like the "problem" may lie in you. Why cant you allow yourself to let someone into your life? What are you afraid of? I could be way off, I have no idea what your previous relationships were like, but maybe its time to stop trying to force a relationship to appear. Why not focus on a different passion? Do something you have dreamed of when you were a little girl, something you can do now! And that will fulfill you. And maybe while doing the thing you love, you will find your future husband. Why dont you have your own home? Overall, stop wasting your time on trying to find the right man, and go pursue your life long passion!
2007-02-28 00:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I do.
Is it inspiration you need or just somebody that fits the bill? 25 men and they all have something wrong w/them... either you're not good at picking out guys to date or your standards are a little too rigid I think. Not that you should settle for less than you want, but maybe the criteria needs a bit of housecleaning.
I know its not easy, but there are plenty of men out there. And as you say, many are attracted to you. Try rethinking what's really important and you just may walk right into Mr. Right tomorrow,
2007-02-28 00:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i guess so. but 25 men in one year man. is it you or what.i have been looking 6 years. and not 25 woman. I'm sick of doing things by my self to. how dare you talk about being depressed. look at the crap i went throw i want that home life to. i lost my g/f in 02 did not want any one at all. now i been over it for a long time. how do you think i feel.i have every thing any one would want out of life. but a good woman. also 2 Harley's a little dog that rides with me. now is that all I'm going to get out of life. see you don't have it that bad. we will find the right one some day. good luck to you. and me to. THANKS now i feel a little better. life must go on. i know its hard. i didn't think i was going to make it over all the holidays
2007-02-28 00:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well unfortunately i cant be everywhere at once and i cant date every woman . Sorry ladies but theres only one of me and im taken so you ll have to settle for what other guys are left out there. Seriously though i think your attractive and dont see why you couldnt find a man . oh well you want a good attractive one who has more than two hairs and five teeth . Well you just have to be aggresive if u find one you like talk to him and see what happens its not rocket science really its not .
2007-02-28 00:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can certainly undestand why you would be depressed. It is hard to say if you are maybe looking in the wrong place for these men or if your setting your standards to high. I guess I would need more information to give any good advice but I do know that there is someone out there for you, just try to be patient. Good Luck.
2007-02-27 23:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Love isn't about finding the perfect person, it's about loving a person perfectly."
Let's see with that in mind remember that everyone is imperfect but I wouldn't go for a married one, but maybe the emotionally closed up one! I think that type is like a challenge, just like in the movie Sweet November! :]
2007-02-27 23:59:28 · answer #8 · answered by genuine♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try moving somewhere else, get out and do something and don't hold back, find someone you just enjoy being around.
2007-02-27 23:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by The Master 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl ya gotta live life and it takes the Mr.Right to make you happy it is some hard to find him though so hang in there
2007-02-27 23:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by brandi g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋