Give me some embarrasing help please!?

Question

My boyfriend and I make out alot and I occasionally start laughing in the middle of kissing him. I don't even know why and I apologize to him but sometimes I don't think he is convinced. Now, today, he started laughing and I felt really weird. What, was I doing something wrong? How am I supposed to turn a guy on when I make out with him? I just don't want him laughing anymore and I want to stop laughing, too. Guys, or women, help me. I don't like being an amatuar!

Answer 1

How funny. I think that the more you think about NOT laughing, the more you'e gonna laugh! (It's like if I tell you not to think about pink elephants, what are you gonna be thinking about?...pink elephants!) Try to focus on his lips, how nice they feel, how great he smells...you know, sensual stuff--not your giggling habit. But yes, I have been there too, and I think it goes away the less nervous you are around the person. Also, putting some music on in the background to break up the silence helps too. Good luck! ;-)

Answer 2

What matters is what your boyfriend told you that he does not like it for he more than likely feels just like you felt when he laughed.Bet he did it to show you what it feels like and that should be all you need to stop for we are here when you are making out but HE IS. Its all about CONTROL like stop yourself.If you continue laughing eventually he's going to get tired of you making him feel weird like what is he doing wrong.Your laughing is making him feel unsure,taking away his confidence-a real ego deflator and he'll be kissing you less and less until he stops and then your relationship will sour until it stops too simply because you couln't control your laughing. What a silly reason to cause a breakup. If you wish to know how to turn a guy on etc then you need to get some books on the subject or dvd for can't anyone give you lessons on this site, would be totally inappropriate.How about when you feel the laugh starting PINCH Yourself to stop.

Answer 3

Well at least now you know how he felt when you did it.

Try some french kissing that should cut down on the laughing. You might be bushing a part of his mouth like a place on his outer lip or bushing something with your tounge that tickles him experiment and then stop it.

Also it could be what your thinking about. When your kissing him think about loving him, about serious things, about what your feeling while kissing him. When you do something alot it looses is special spark and it can become easy when it becomes common place for a funny thought to sneak its way in and cause you to laugh, fight the urge.

Answer 4

Are you laughing out of nervousness because that is what it sounds like. When you do figure out what is making you laugh, make sure that you tell him because he is probably thinking that you are making fun of how he kisses you. When he started laughing, he probably just wanted to make you feel how he felt when you laughed in the middle of a kiss. If you felt weird when he laughed, imagine how he must have felt when you laughed

Answer 5

lol, i found these things on wikihow, but they seem really helpful =]

1. Find a willing participant (guy or gal.. or both!).
2. Have nice breath. Maybe avoid onions and anchovies - but this isn't always necessary, especially if you've been drinking - then nobody cares how you smell.
3. Have chapstick or other lip accessories available - nobody likes chapped lips.
4. Give them that "come hither" look. It works really well for girls.
5. Have no inhibitions - if in public, pretend you're not, if in private, go nuts!
6. Take some control, but don't dictate how it goes.
7. Don't grope unless invited.
8. Use your tongue - it's hot.
9. Don't be afraid to try new things-keep it interesting!
10. Smell good - please bathe.


Tips

* Brush your teeth for best results.
* Don't drink too much wine or other alcoholic beverages.


Warnings

* Used in excess may lead to face-burn from a beard, or growing-in beard.


Things You'll Need

* Lips
* A partner


Steps

1. Slide your tongue into your partner's mouth while normally kissing or "pecking" him or her. He/she will catch on and do the same to you. Make it last! Don't waste your first time - it only comes once!
2. (For girls only) Hold onto his head lightly with your hands and slowly move them to the back of his head. Rub your hands through his hair and down his shirt. He'll love it!
3. (For guys only) Wrap your arms firmly around her and rub up and down her back. Even on her butt! She'll love it!


Tips

* Compliment your target on how good he or she is.
* Wear deodorant, brush your teeth or use mouthwash, and smell fresh.


Warnings

* Don't forget to swallow or you may slobber, and that's gross.
* Don't make groaning noises.
* If the other person is a bad kisser, don't say anything! If they say something like that to you, respond "You're not too pro either" and then don't bother kissing them again. Who wants to kiss someone rude like that?

Answer 6

It happens. laughing while having sex/making love is not wrong, though it may leave the other partner wondering.. but if both of you do it, it actually is fun.. maybe you were doing it because you are ticklish?? and he did it to show you how it feels when someone laughs?? but even people who have known each other for years and who have been intimate for ages laugh sometimes during sex.... Nothing wrong here!!

Answer 7

Excuse me, but how is he laughing when you're kissing different from you laughing when you're kissing?

When kissing someone it can cause you to laugh because you find it pleasant and pleasurable, and because you are at ease with the person you're kissing. Laughing isn't necessarily a bad thing, in other words.

Answer 8

Maybe your both a little nervous that can make you laugh with no control. Anyway now you know it hurts him try to be a bit sensitive but who cares enjoy and laugh as much as possible

Answer 9

As long as you're happy while you're doing these things, it's not very important WHAT form the happiness takes.

You could roleplay a bit. For example, let him hold your wrists down until you stop laughing. This could take quite a while, but I doubt he'll mind. ;)

Answer 10

Believe it or not, sometimes it happens to me too. I believe it is not the right mood at that moment... and that kissing is not the first thing in your mind at that moment. That's why it starts to feel ackward and started to feel a bit funny.

So I believe it is the matter of the timing and it is not something you did wrong.