how do i make sex fun for him?

Question

i mean were good in bed, but i want to make it better for him...
and i want a better orgasm!!!

Answer 1

toys and lotions

Answer 2

As far as your orgasm, generally, women need more build up, more fore-play. Here's an idea: Plan a special evening w/ candles, a fire-if weather appropriate, a bottle of wine, and blanket in the middle of the floor.

Plan the evening which will get you thinking about it. When the night comes start slow and build to a climax by giving him a massage or depending on the details giving him an early orgasm so he is ready for round #2 and will last longer for you to have a better O.

If interested you can introduce honey, caramel, chocolate, and/or whipping cream to the mix - if so use an old shower curtain to keep the syrups from getting all over. Meanwhile, during the evening ask him what he likes and how he likes then do not be afraid to share the same with him. Let him know what you like, how you like, how rythmically or fast/slow etc...

I hope you are 21+ and married but...I am not so naive to think...anyway.
Another idea is to use a soft-velvet rope to tie him up or play a game where he has to tell you what to do and vice versa.
Back to your O - variety is the spice of life and sex and simultaneously using multiple parts of one's body can help bring you higher; i.e. two hands in two different locations and ones mouth/lips/tongue in a third location can be VERY erotic. Getting you close then backing off instead of immediately going for the gusto is good, too. Patience is a good thing, even during sex. The longer you 'play' w/o having an Oh the bigger the Ohhhh will be!
Good Luck and Enjoy in good fun w/ maturity!
MaxbpS

Answer 3

I miss sex! This North American Society has really screwed me! Nevertheless, here are some fun ideas for ya! Set up a swing set in your living room or bedroom and have Spider Sex while you swing back and forth! Or, how about clearing off your Kitchen Counter and covering yourself with chocolate, strawberries, and whip cream and getting him to lick it off! Go fishing in a private lake or ocean area where both of you can get naked and cast your rod while rowing and humping each other! These are a few fun ideas that may help bring some excitement back into your sex life. Be creative and make sure you can find places to do it in secret where no-one else is watching.

Answer 4

First make it good for yourself.
Nice men get turned on when they think they have pleased a woman.
Pre-stuff vital
Good laugh essential, Then something mildly naughty he washes you with naughty things, Don't lose the soap, or wash stick.
Lots of luvy duvy. Kisses, neck nuzzling etc what ever YOU like.
A tiny bit of wild stuff, throw your legs in the air, do it with clothes on then off. If possible travel around the house.
By now your body should be in mood to really enjoy.
YOUR orgasm will give HIM pleasure.

Answer 5

Exploration, if you haven't already, introduce objects and foreplay. Pretend that you two are in a hot, steamy, erotic movie. Candles all around, no other light, smokey tunes. Don't be bashful because that is what I would want. A womans' aggression.

Answer 6

for him all guys like blow jobs (long ones too) and for you try propping a pillow under you or keep your legs together when hes on top and best of all start off with forplay you have really extremely good orgasims when your about as horney as you can be make him tease you a little

Answer 7

try out movies/lotions and lotz of wicked foreplay!! what does he like or what do you want to change? TRY ANAL IF U HAVEN'T ALREADY MY MAN LOVES IT

Answer 8

you can start by putting our ankles behind your ears