i really think love is not for me.. i am really sad, because i feel lonely,i am mature woman, atractive, independent. profesional. i consider myself a good person, i have great feeling..why am i lonely?i need to meet someone that cares about me.. is somebody feeling the same, please let me know;;please write!
2007-02-27 15:17:33 · 19 answers · asked by neni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I felt just like you a few weeks ago but I got back w/ an ex to forget my last luv of my life...
So i know where you are coming from, I felt so alone and even more frustrated because i felt i have a lot to offer. This relationship I am in now is just for companionship. Someone to come home to...
Anyway, try online dating. Don't waste time on anyone who does not post a photo. Anyone not living in the United States. Anyone who takes more than one month to set a meeting date.
Just keep active! Exercise, yoga...don't stay in the house and feel miserable. Don't pig out on the wrong foods.KEEP ACTIVE!
2007-02-27 15:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Everybody feels lonely at one time or another, even people in a relationship. Love is for everyone, you just have to meet the right guy who is considerate and a gentleman. Untill you meet that special guy, you may consider a pet to help ease the feelings of being lonely. Feel free to email me if you would like.
2007-02-27 15:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Neni try not to let being lonely get you down, the more you think about it the worse it is, everyone feels lonley sometimes and depressed, the best thind to do to overcome it is to keep busy, maybe take some dance classes , join some community groups , volunteer work for charities , visiting old folks homes or sick children, and during these activities you will enlarge your circle of friends, one of these friends may one day end up being your soulmate, so get out and enjoy your life, all the best for your future
Paul
2007-02-27 15:24:48 · answer #3 · answered by paul R 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Start going out. Some one will find you! Don't worry. But until your soul mate come along...you just have to live your life and be happy with yourself first. Be satisfied with what you are doing and who you are, then a man will just be something extra. (on the side). There is some one for every one. Dont look, he'll find you, and dont be sad, you have to be strong woman. A man is just the icing on the cake...but we are the entire cake..if you know what I mean. Open a myspace account, if you dont already have one. If you dont know what that is hit me up in the email, and i'll tell you about it!
2007-02-27 15:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by BE HAPPY! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been where you are. I think we all get lonely sometimes. If it's a matter of being "inlove" then I don't have any real advice, it just sort of happens or doesn't. But if you are just looking for someone to care about that cares about you, then I would recommend reaching out to people. Lots of people... people that you normally wouldn't think to reach out to. You may be surprised to find that someone that you wouldn't have considered dating in the past might become a very special person in your life.
2007-02-27 15:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by Vesuvius 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Go and do a lot of activities. Play sports, meet more friends. Forget about being lonely and looking for love. Love will sneak up to you when you least expect it.
2007-02-27 15:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by Lana 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
of course... i feel the same way most of the time, its like rlationships are not for me... although i would like someone there to maybe love me and share my life with, i know that i could be alone because of my independance and it would be ok... we all get a little lonely sometimes, even when i was in relationships i was a still alone in a sence...
2007-02-27 15:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by the_sky_is_my_sanctuary 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
ask past boyfriend what is it about me that intimated you. And listen with out judgment. Then you will know how to improve on yourself. We all can improve ourself. You know we sometime think that be professional, independent means something but to a man it really doesn't. And if that doesn't help you then join some kind of group or church to where you can help out and better someone life it sound like you have lots of talent that you could share with someone, and maybe you will find mister wonderful.
2007-02-27 15:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by honeybunny 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I am in a similar position but I am sure that I will meet the right person when the time is right. In the meantime I fill my time with new interests which have put me in positions to meet new people.
2007-02-27 15:21:45 · answer #9 · answered by Panda 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
sure .I do at times feel like alone and am ... independent professional,consider.am sure some time .I feel very lonely...but i love it the last time .I had a boyfriend .after 1year .I felt lonely and he try to control me so .no I love my life its Had's good and bad time but most great.cause .I love me and single life is great...............works for me...
2007-02-27 15:29:21 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋