I am a 27 year old man and I recently broke up with my fiance that I was with for 4 years, we were supposed to be married this summer. I thought that she was the one I could spend my whole life with, but she broke up with me because she didn't think we were right for each other.....
I know that I want to meet other women to help me get over her, but I don't know how else to stop thinking about her. Everything still makes me think about her, how can I stop?
2007-02-27 14:30:16 · 7 answers · asked by Ben 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Usually rebound relationships don't work out very well, and for those very reasons...that you can't stop thinking about the other person. It's probably better for you in the long-run to take some time off the dating world. Hang out with your guy buddies and enjoy the single life again. Get into wyour work, find new hobbies in your spare time, make friends, be with family more, set some new life goals and work at achieving them. Those are all some ideas to help you get over someone.
Who knows...maybe while your doing some of your own soul searching you'll meet someone new and it'll work out.
2007-02-27 14:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by Kurius_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry things didn't work out for you but i dont think you can get over someone by being with someone else. these things take time. You obviously loved her alot, and after coming so close to marriage i dont think you should go jumping in the "sea" for other fish just yet. you need to give yourself some time, maybe go out with Friends and live a little on your own and see what it is you want out of life.
Maybe then when the right girl does come along you wont still be so hung up about your ex.
2007-02-27 14:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by sgreenslade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's goin to take time obviously. And i don't think there is any easy way to get over her. So get yourself out there, meet new friends, rekindle old friendships, get on with your life. Do something new and exciting, go travel, take a class....just do things that won't make you think of her. Then one day you'll meet the girl of your dreams, and you will be sooo happy!!! So it's tough now, but time will heal, and i truly beleive...everything happens for a reason.
2007-02-27 14:37:08 · answer #3 · answered by mariapie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy put everything that reminds you about her in the trash and pics too everything and go on with you life...Music etc. Everything that will make you think about her you aere very young and believe or not it was better beforeit was too late I mean to say before you were marry and maybe she were pregnant think about it. Now you will be very careful to don't fall for it so easy...sometimes we make choices that we regret later so...Take a trip to the place that you always want to go and a new place apartment etc. will help to move on so good luck!!!
2007-02-27 14:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will take time.
you will always have a spot in your heart just for her.
maybe somewhere down the road the two of you will get back together....
until then...go out into the world..and meet people..for friendship....something amazing might happen along the way.....
you'll find love & happiness with another girl...who will be the perfect one for you.
there's a saying...." rejection is God's protection..." think about it....
2007-02-27 14:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by manhattanmaryanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took her 4 years to realise,get out there and enjoy your life with out her it will take time to get over her,but good luck and hope you find someone who will be right for you.
2007-02-27 14:34:32 · answer #6 · answered by ladycindy1701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Negative visualization works quite well. Just imagine her sitting on the toilet taking a big, hairy sh-it. Spraying the bowl with diarrhea!
2007-02-27 14:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by cloudofeiderdown 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋