Well this is a long story, but i'll try to make it short.
For a few years, my mom has been in rehab back and fourth because of drugs. She has a probelm with them and i dont like it, it really hurts me, you have no idea. She's been stressing for a little while and thats why she took drugs in the first place. Just last month, she has tried to commit suicide by taking an overdose with pills, she even wrote a will of testeament to her kids.
I found her lying on the kitchen floor just lying there with her eyes closed, i called the ambualnce quickly as i could and they rushed her into ambluance. I've been thinking for a past few weeks and really thought about it too.
Do i deserve this? Do my younger sibilings deserve this? I dont think we do, i dont want to live with her anymore. My parents divorced when i was 8 and my dad lives in Boston and i live, like 1,000 miles away from him. He's married and is excepted to have a baby on the way, i want to live with him. My mom took custody,
2007-02-27 14:28:53 · 4 answers · asked by Where's the sunrise? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
of us. She has 5 kids total, but one is grown up and married. I've talked to him about this and sneking behind m moms back. I've made my final desicion, what do i do when i dont want to live with her anymore?
I'm currently staying with my cousins and aunts house. My mom is still in rehab. What do i do? I want to live in boston with my dad.
2007-02-27 14:30:30 · update #1
oh yes, i'm 15 years old. If my mom can't stop this process, then i dont want to be a part of her life anymore and i dont want her to influence my brothers and sisters.
This is a hard descions but i've made final descion, i dont want to be part of her life anymore.
2007-02-27 14:32:31 · update #2
leave. just leave. have your dad call a social worker and have him argue custody for you and your siblings. your mom is sick and its not right she does that even though she has you guys. your mother is like mine and i cant stand to even hear people talking about my mom.
2007-02-27 14:36:14 · answer #1 · answered by bre.metaljunkie. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You contact someone close to you or a counselor at school and you tell them your concerns you mother is not abusive but that is not the only reason in the world that parents lose custody of there children. She is not providing you with a stable living situation and further more is emotionally abusing you by making you go thru all this and if she has tried to commit suicide has already proven you to be in a unsafe living environment. You dad should be able to fight for custody of you he stands a good chance since he seems to have a good home and new family to provide you with. You need to let him know what is going on. Just keep in mind that if you dad does not fight for custody and your mom is considered a unfit parent you and your siblings might end up in foster care which can sometimes be worse then where you came from.
2007-02-27 18:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's awful that someone at your age has to deal with these types of issues.
Your mom is obviously ill and can't care for you or your siblings. If your father or another relative can take you and your siblings in by all means go.
A custody case would be open and shut considering the current condition of your mother.
I sincerely empathize with your situation and I wish you and your mother all the best.
2007-02-27 15:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call him and ask him if you can you and your siblings live with him. He will know what to do.
2007-02-27 15:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by Tonya W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋