So I have known this guy for 7 months he's 30 I'm 23 we've hung out at least 7 times but he has yet to kiss me or even try anything sexually. We haven't hung out so much bc I was in school and out of town...but still? He always tells me how much he likes me and calls me every day...so what is his deal? Someimes we hang out and he doesnt even hug me...I'm getting FRUSTRATED! Apparently it was hard for any girl to keep his attention, but he talks of how he's turned a new leaf and he has from what everyone tells me and what I see. So how can a girl get some attention?
2007-02-27 14:28:19 · 28 answers · asked by Superfly21 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
most likely he likes you as much as you like him, but hey some of us guys are a little shy, maybe he's afraid that if he makes the wrong move that you might run from him, and thats a chance he is not ready to face, there is no writen law that says a girl can't lean against the guy she hangin out with then try to hold his hand, and if that don't work, well at the end of the night when you to part give him a long hugg, you might get that kiss you want,or even more...... good luck
2007-02-27 14:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by robert m 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but you should appreciate the fact that he's looking for more from you than a quick lay!
He's making a positive change in his life to stop using women, and thats awesome. You might be alittle frustrated, but thats what masturbation is for...LOL. Enjoy getting to know this guy.
Seems like he might be worth the effort, and aggrivation :P
Be patient, or let him down nicely.
2007-02-27 14:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by Kurius_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.....your circumstance makes me smile....reminds me of me! Years back, I was seeing this woman whom I had met through some friends of mine. Friends had told me to go slow because this woman had been through some really rough relationships. So, being the gentleman that I am......I never tried to kiss her or anything for the first few months we were together. One day she just looked at me and said: "What the hell is your problem.....do you want to sleep with me or not"? Now, that got my attention!!!!
Moral is hun......if you want a man's attention, sometimes you just need to use a more direct approach. Take care!!!!
2007-02-27 14:36:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am like that. It is simple say "let us ****.' he probably wont turn it down. He probably doesn't want to say anything to make you think he is a pervert or some **** (which he isn't if he is avoiding it). He will think about it...just not the DOer type needs a huge initiative other than hints.
2007-02-27 14:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Matbe he just does not want to because he thinks that you don;t want him to. Have you shown him any signs that you are comfortable enough with him to let him do that? Cause a guy needs to be carefull if he's too fast most girls would dump him.
2007-02-27 14:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by firedemonedge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait for him to make the first move.
What's wrong with you holding his hand, give
him a way to see that you like to be touched by him.
Tell him so and don't be shy.
Maybe he is not sure of what you expect from him.
Go for it girl!l
2007-02-27 14:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably afraid to make the first move because you're so much younger than him, and he doesn't want to come out perverted. He doesn't know the social norm when it comes to your age, touching wise. My advice? Make the first move.
2007-02-27 14:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by Juuuuliana Bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the people answering these questions dont even know if your hot. so lets assume you are for now. he hasnt "touched" you for many possible reasons the first that would come to most mens minds is he's gay but we know he likes u so all of that was pointless.hmmmm. if you really need it that bad do it by yourself, go buy a dong
2007-02-27 14:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by eddie k 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you initiate the hug the next time you see and see how how he reacts.
2007-02-27 14:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello,
well my question to u is have u tried to hug or touch him????some men need to know when the time is right????and y don't you ask him the questtion u r asking us????he is the only person that can answer that really only he knows what to say......good luck on ur answer....
2007-02-27 14:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by wendy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋