lets say ur a teenage boy and u have sex. and u get ur girl pregnant by accident what would u do? leave her or get a job and take care of her? im only aking cuz i see some leaving them. i hate those!!!!!!!
2007-02-27 14:23:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is not an easy question to answer at all. I was 15 when my daughter was born and I did not marry the mother. In fact, I did not see my daughter again for twenty years.
Before you send the angry mob, allow me to explain. I was still a child myself. I had issues with authority. I was experimenting with drugs, and because I had no father figure in my life, my advice came from my h/s buddies.
I am not making excuses, just stating facts. 22 years later, I wish that I could take it all back and have been there for my daughter. That is the biggest regret of my life. But I cannot. So even though her mother and I don't speak, my daughter and I have been back in each others lives for two years. It was because I finally learned what a real man is. It took me twenty years to figure out what a father and a provider is. That is what I do for her and my daughter loves me for it.
But to give you a general answer to your question, it really depends on the mentality of the guy. Factors such as upbringing, beliefs, values, and his own personal issues at the time will all play a factor in the decision he makes. Let's just hope that more kids learn the true value of abstinence and will never have to answer this question!
2007-02-27 14:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by fenway2k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Darling,
Depends most young Males are out for sex anyway they can get it. They will tell you they love you buy you things do anything to get IT. but they are not interested in getting tied down or being a Father they just want sex. if you get preg, you will be the only one changing the dipers, its not a fun life for you or the poor child, being a single parent is hard and even harder on the child.
If your having sex without protection you are asking for some serious problems. STD's are everywhere and herpes is rampant NO CURE!!!!
General information if a guy doesn't get sex after 3 dates he's off to another girl. if he gets sex he will stay till it gets old or till he finds another girl, this goes on until he's 25 then he starts looking to settle down.
Best way to weed these types of guy out is to tell them on the first date you will not sleep with him for at least a year so you can really get to know him and then only after you get an engagement ring better yet till married. if he calls you after that date then maybe he is interested in you or sees you as a challenge, but hold to your standards, at least you will have not been used and he will respect you for that , he may not say so but he will. If you sleep with him in the first month or so there is no respect and he will be gone.
Sad but that's life young guys think with the little brain,,,,,, well all guys think with thier little brain but as you get older you can "override it" and do what an Adult should do... become responsible.
2007-02-27 22:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by S h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl. If I truly liked the girl, I would stick by her side. On the other had, if I didn't really "love" her then I would try to leave her. Either way, the person's life would be messed up forever.
2007-02-27 22:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by funnyzombies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find a way to take care of the two of them. Any guy that wouldn't is not a male they are a baby. I believe in the saying that "If you pull it out to play than pull it out to pay."
2007-02-27 22:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by mankind229 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll step up to be man. Those guy that leave their lady are just not ready to be a man. They are afraid of taking care of them, but not afraid of fu*****. Funny, isn't it? Good Luck and Peace Girl!
2007-02-27 22:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't have sex in the first place if i weren't gonna raise the kid.
thus, i wouldn't have sex as a teenager
2007-02-27 22:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It DID happen to me and I married her.
Turned out to be the biggest mistake of my life.
Nowadays there are a lot of women who choose to raise kids on their own.
2007-02-27 22:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by AlphaMale 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it depends on how old teenage goes. if it was me and i had a strong enough job to support a child assuming my "wife" did somethine to support herself then yes. then i would sterilize her and myself.
2007-02-27 22:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by eddie k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually, i will never do that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and enen if i do that, of course i will marry her cause that would be my fault to get her pregnant
this is called humanity
2007-02-27 22:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by HULK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋