My exboyfriend still acts like he wants to be with me what do i do??? help!?

Question

my ex boyfriend still acts like he wants to be with me and we still act like we are together but then when he is around his friends he acts like a ***. he still tells me that he loves me but i just dont know what to do. i have talked to him about it and when we are alone it seems like he cares but once he gets around his friends he just totally blows me off and acts like i dont exist. this was my first love and i dont want to loose him. we have been friends for 5 years and together for 3 1/2. should i keep trying to make things work out of move on??? any advise? please

Answer 1

I say that next time he acts like an *** turn around to him and make an *** out of him so that way he is embarressed by his friends show him that you wont take that crap. If he loves you he will stop

Answer 2

If he still loved you then he'd have no problem being honest about his feelings when his friends are around. It's never easy to move on after so much time together, but you have to weigh the good and the bad. I used to make a list of good qualities and bad qualities to see which was greater. The heart tends to play tricks on you, but deep inside you truly know if he's the one for you. One sure way is to ask yourself if he wasn't there tomorrow...would you feel like your life was complete. If he loves you, he'd never ever disrespect you no matter who was around. It seems like he needs to grow up some more. There's no sense trying to make things work if there's nothing there in the first place.

You might want to just be friends for a while. If it's meant for you to be together, it won't matter how much time has lapsed without being in an actual relationship. Remember, it's in his kiss. Does his kiss today make you feel the same as it did 3 years, 2 years, 1 year ago??

Answer 3

He sounds like he's playing games I know because I did that a couple of times. When my friends are around I'll blow her off but when were alone I'll be smiles and hallmark cards. A little bit of advice either you can stay with him by putting him in his place by giving him the cold shoulder when you re in public and your alone with him or just break up with him and tell him the reason why. Because if you love someone you wont disrespect them. I hope this helps.

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Answer 4

MOve on. He's using you as a doormat. He wants his cake and eat it too. Don't give him the option. Your doing this to yourself. If he knows your truly gone then he will be sorry if you hang around in the background he'll never have the chance to truly miss you. You deserve better

Answer 5

That's a hard one. His friends probably drive him about you guys. There just haters and he needs to learn how to treat you the same who ever is around. By the way ask him if you are a couple.

Answer 6

You should give him a second chance and if he screws that one up then tell him your not going to get back together because he had a second chance and ruined it.

Answer 7

u better think twice b4 u accept him.normally it's quite common happenning like this but it still can't last longer in the end as he w'd go again.take care.

Answer 8

move on !!! if he cant be the same no matter who he is around hes no good . or u could just do the same things he does to you

Answer 9

you should do what your heart says if he blows you off aroud his friends then tell him how that makes you feel and if he keeps doing it blow him off there are more guys you will find someone better

Answer 10

I am in tha same position u r..i need sum ansaz 2...