How do i ask out a girl when the only time is see her is once a day. And that is going down the hall.?

Question

How do i ask her out. How can i found out what bus she rides or something

Answer 1

I'm really good at helping people with dates like this..but when I need it I need someone lol...but anyway.

Things to DO:

A. Make your presence known. Girls don't respond to things that aren't there. (obviously)
Try:
1. Saying "Hi" once in a while

2. Strike up a conversation,

3. If you really like her, make you and her late a bit by striking up a small talk conversation, or if you have the extra time, talk. If she has the extra time, still talk to her. It depends if you want to be late for your next class to get this girl. If you are late for a class, even just a little bit, then you are a step closer to going out.

4. If she drops her books pick them up, but don't force it into her hand; let her take it from you. When she grabs hold of the book, you have several options:

a) hold onto the book, and when she pulls to get it back, she notices something; you want her to stay for a bit. Make it known that you want her to stay and make a conversation , but don't make it uncomfortable for her. If she really really really needs to get to class, don't use this option; it slows down time, and she won't like it.

notes for option A: while holding onto the book, with your hand holding it and her hand holding it at the same time, look into her eyes while she talks; focus left to right eye, or right to left, but dont immediately go to the next eye right after you make contact with one. look but don't stare, don't look at her mouth, and dont look at the book or whatever she dropped. with both your and her hand on the book, other people know that you two would be starting a relationship so there are less people to try and take her. and less heartbroken moments.

option b) hold onto the book. look at her in her eyes. say that you've seen her walking a bit and would like to talk once in a while, but DONT say immediately "do you want to go out with me?" because that will ruin it. in other words, you have to work to get up to gear 6 on a car. if you do, you'll break your gearbox (relationship) if you go straight to 6 without going to 1,2,3,4, or 5 1st. ALSO ask her where she hangs out so you know where to find her. DONT ASK if she has a boyfriend. THAT IS THE CHEAP WAY AND I GUARANTEE THAT YOU WILL NOT GET HER IF YOU SAY THAT.

notes for option b): when you hold onto the book, make it close to your chest, or upper stomach area. DONT put it by your side or dont grip it and hang it down by your thighs. This shows her that you have no respect for her stuff. THATS BAD. and dont...i mean NEVER hold it in your...private area. If you hold it and she reaches for it, DONT turn away and let her chase it she will get irritated.

option c) give her the book, and say that you've seen her occasionally and you want to talk. if she says "talk about what" DONT SAY RELATIONSHIP OR ANY OF THE SYNONYMS OF THAT WORD. say "just talk"

OTHER THINGS TO DO:

If she didn't drop any books, try and catch up to her and make small talk. Say "Hi" and ask what class she is going to next. Ask her if you can carry her bags and stuff. If some friend or someone you don't know comes up to you and says "why are you carrying her bags?" DONT say "i felt like it" say "just being a gentleman." if they laugh, thats ok. WHATS MORE IMPORTANT IS THAT SHE NOTICED.

Don't command, and don't speak loudly. Take earphones out of BOTH ears to talk. when you respond, dont look down, and dont look up at the ceiling. dont look left or right, dont wave at friends passing by...focus on her. look into her eyes, not her nose, not her mouth, not her forehead, nothing else. GIRLS KNOW WHEN YOU ARENT LOOKING STRAIGHT AT THEM. LOOK HER IN THE EYES. if she turns her head away, look at the eye closes to you. she may check if she is still looking at you.


WHEN YOU HAVE SMALL TALK; MAKE SURE THAT YOU ASK HER WHERE SHE HANGS OUT. OR A MEETING SPOT TO GO TALK SOME MORE. after that, you're on your own lol.


hand written by enzo32ferrari.

Answer 2

John you'll have to take FULL advantage of that moment you see her in the hall......smile at her, catch her eyes and ask her if she has just a moment. Take her aside if possible and be direct cuz time is short. Open with a compliment about her, ASK her for her phone #(have a pen handy) and let her know you would like to take her out sometime and that YOU will call her. Then say your goodbyes. She may be of the mind that she doesn't want any big deal made of it right there in the hallway so directness with respectfulness and a good dose of charm would be good :)

Answer 3

Tell her you have a friend or something that rides that bus and ask her for the number. and when you see her down the hall, give her a note or something saying how nice her shirt looks or something and smile. trust me im a middle school girl.

Answer 4

You know which way she is walking so just get there before her and walk with her in her direction and just say hi my name is Sam and I would like to talk to you what lunch do you have? Oh I have second lunch could I walk you home? OH you ride the bus,,, Which one? Bus #8 I'll met you at the bus we could talk for a while.

OK you get the drift, you may be late for class but it's worth it..... RIGHT!!!!

Answer 5

Sometimes you just gotta put your heart out there...on the line and ask her...if you can walk with her then, if she would like to...

Try to find out what she likes but if this is not possible just be specific. Ask about a specific day, time, and event/restaurant/movie. If she is interested she will say yes regardless of the specifics but it shows you thought about it.

Good Luck and Go For IT! The worst she can do is say No and then that just frees you to find someone better for you!
MaxbpS

Answer 6

Well, when you see eachother down the hall then go by and smile
and then as the days go on....try to walk with her and talk. But if
that will be hard to talk since you are only going by down the hall then when you walk by try to look at her ID and see what bus it is,
then meet her at her bus....and go from there.

Good Luck!

Answer 7

Prepare a note with your name, address and contact numbers clearly written. Hand it to her and let her know that you would like her to be your friend. Be polite and ask nicely with smiles all over your face. Ask her if you may have her name and contact details as well. Let her know that you'l be waiting for her tomorrow at the same place/same time and look forward to receiving her name and contact details then. Wish her well and walk off.

Answer 8

I have the same problem because the only time I see a girl that I like at school is during lunch

Answer 9

Well, playa, you now know the time to ask her out.
That's right. Going down the hall.
I have to admire your spirit. Just tell her you'd like to get to know her better, see what she says and then go from there.

Good luck.

Answer 10

Send a note with a flower taped on a locker ?

Answer 11

walk down the hall with her..walk to her classes with her..meet her after her classes...talk to her by her locker..talk to her during lunch...see...plenty of time during the day to get to know her and ask her out!