So, this guy asks me out. and on our date, he holds my hand and kisses me. But he didn't call me back so i called him! But he still didnt get the message that i wanted him to call me. He even told my friend that he liked me. so why wont he call?
2007-02-27 14:08:26 · 9 answers · asked by APerfectSonnet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys will call when they are ready, Sorry to say your not the most important thing in his life, don't seem to eager guys like to chase if you chase he will loose respect and end up just using you. if he really likes you he will call but on his terms. just sit back and enjoy life don't wait for him keep looking there are more fish in the sea and the more you get out the more Desirable you will be. A guy always wants something he can't have, make him beg :)
2007-02-27 14:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by S h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't really get it either, but it usually boils down to either the guy lacks confidence, OR the guy just isn't that into you, no matter what he says! As a girl, the only thing we can do is make sure the guy knows we're interested (this has to be made very clear, like 'I really enjoyed our date, when can we go out again?') and risk rejection if he passes. But it might be worth the risk if he's just afraid to take a chance himself.
2007-02-27 14:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by Deborah C 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's busy. Just chill out and wait. The next time u see him u can ask if he got your message and ask if he still wants to go out.
2007-02-27 14:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably a player and going out with someone else, But that's what I think I mean I might be wrong maybe he's too busy or shy.
2007-02-27 14:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by Vicz101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, guys are jerks. and they wont call. my bf of 6 months hardly calls me and i get mad at him, but o well. just ask if he likes you. communication=key. without it, theres no relationship.
2007-02-27 14:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by sd_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not that into you.When someone really wants something or someone, they do whatever they can to obtain it.
2007-02-27 14:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by redstar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we (guys) are really not to sure ourselves and we like to know for sure ....ya know?
2007-02-27 14:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by chrisandlane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe he's busy or something.
2007-02-27 14:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by Thrasymachus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mAYBE he IS pLAYin hARD tO gET! dONT gET YOUr hOPES aLL dOWN!
2007-02-27 14:13:50 · answer #9 · answered by BE HAPPY! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋