I like this guy my best friend likes, but he likes me but I don't know what to do! What is more important, a friendship with my Best friend, or a boy???
2007-02-27 14:01:59 · 36 answers · asked by Rai 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, on the "Dibbs" Part that someone asked, she said she liked him first, but I knew deep down that I liked him too. I know she still likes me as a friend, but shes pretty mad at me right now. I'll take you guys advice and stick with my friend. Me and the boy will just be "Cute like" together.
Thanks fo' yo' help. <3
2007-02-27 14:13:47 · update #1
Ill add somethin else too. I tried talkin to her about it and she just keeps sayin she doesn't care anymore. I'll just stick with my plan. Thanks again guys for all your help <3 ;D
2007-02-27 14:18:09 · update #2
would your best friend do that to you?
Once you figure that out, You'll have all the answers you need.
You and your conscience is more important then anyone else. Be sure to take care in your choices and think about the Golden Rule when you make THAT choice. You have to live with yourself they don't because that is their choice.
Kind Regards,
Jennifer
P.S. You cannot love someone until you love yourself.
2007-02-27 14:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by JNM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking yourself that question: what is more important, a friendship with your best friend or a boy. Look at the possibilities of choosing your best friend: you will be closer if she knows that you value your friendship over a boy. If you chose a boy: you might be a little rocky with your friendship with your best friend but you get the boy. But know that friendships last a long time and a boy can only last so long. Why don't you talk to your friend about your situation. Be honest with her and see where you and your friend stand in regards to liking the same guy.
2007-02-27 14:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by Christel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have them both...Just don't tell her you are dating the guy. Or try to set her up with a different dude. Why let your happiness suffer for someone else? I don't get that..Put yourself first and then other people . If you try to please others all the time.. you'll only be depressed and unhappy...If she really is your best friend she will except it.
I suffered too long putting other peoples happiness before my own..and i lost out on alot of things.
Try setting her up with another boy that likes her...
These people are dumb I tell ya.. tell you friendship is more important.. Why should you have to give up ur dream guy for someone else..?? If she was really your friend she would give him up so you can date him ...
2007-02-27 14:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship. It is a like a diamond that is as big as your head. Keep the friend and lose the guy.
2007-02-27 14:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
-girl she is your best friend what are you thinking especially if she told you she has a thing for him-why would you even consider ruining your freindship for some guy! don' do it - put your self in her shoes! say you like a guy and the guy likes her and she likes him and return and she went for him-would you not feel betrayed that someone that you trusted with all of your secrets and everything else chose the guy which you liked in the first place over your friend ship-think about that for a second doesn't that make you feel like crap- besides it sounds like she orriginally liked him and you found out he liked you so now you like him- just think about it.
2007-02-27 14:40:07 · answer #5 · answered by ang925 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friendship is more important. Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Ask her if she thinks it's ok if you go out with him. It's not worth risking an important friendship over.
2007-02-27 14:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by Manrolls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not become an alternative couple and all three of you could love all over each other. Just like in the smash hit HBO show Big Love. Become Mormon and celebrate polygamy.
2007-02-27 14:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by pinascoplumbing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friendship lasts a long time and boys dont lol so forget about that boy if hes going to cause problems between you and your best friend youll find someone else trust me
2007-02-27 14:08:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much do you want to keep the friendship. Cause, you know what's going to happen the minute you make a move on her boyfriend.
2007-02-27 14:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by mop-27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FRIENDSHIP, trust me. You will regret ever doing something like that to her. What if things don't work out? Then you are out a guy and your best friend! Just wait to see what happens.. if she ends up not liking him, talk to her about it. Just don't be a shady friend.
2007-02-27 14:05:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋