i am 18 by the way. i gave my crus ha note telling him that i like him and asking him if he feels the same way. well it has been a week since i gave him the note a he hasn't said anything about it. we are still friendly and talk but i am not sure why he won't respond to my question in the note. Why is he not answering the question and what does it mean??? what do i do???
Please Help Me!!!!
2007-02-27 13:50:01 · 14 answers · asked by misbehaveing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it depends on what kind of guy he is, if he is like i was he is probably waitin fo rthe right moment to answer in a special way or mayb he just doesnt know how to answer yet.....
of course another option is that he doesnt want to be mean and he is hoping that you will get the point from him not responding, maybe that means that he just wants to be friends...
there are many possibilities so u can either wait it out, or just ask him about it, again it depends on what kind of guy he is on what the best decision is....
2007-02-27 13:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by x2carlosp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here is the thing you just dont go up to a guy and give him a note like that. He is obviously not awnsering your question because he is too scared, give him time he will come back to his senses and one day when you least expect it he will ask you to go on a date or something like that. Meanwhile just calm down and take a deep breath.
2007-02-27 21:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by Blueberry. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If yall are talking like friends, why haven't you asked him what happened or why hasn't he replied?? Not all boys like bringing stuff up like that, so if you really like him like you do, then you should take matters into your own hands, and go for it, or just go ask the person you gave it 2, if he or she gave it to the right person, or did she/he even give it 2 him yet....
2007-02-27 21:56:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ti-Ti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is not interested in you at all. Why not be a mature woman and either TELL him or ask him what he thinks about your note.
Good luck. Pops
2007-02-27 23:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes no answer IS the answer. Just remember NEVER ask a question if you are only willing to accept one answer.
Move on, have some self respect buy not worrying about it. Cool?
2007-02-27 21:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by Matticus Kole 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess he is also too shy to response to ur note. Nvm, You guys are still talking & still friends. Thats still good. Give him some time. Don' rush him...
2007-02-27 21:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say this, but it sounds like he's just not that into you. he's still being friendly, which is good, but probably just wants to be friends. guys would rather die than actually have to turn you down to ur face, so that's why he's trying to pretend like it didn't happen.
2007-02-27 21:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by shara j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's still talking to you like nothing happened then it meant nothing to him or he's too dumb to know better. Just corner him and say "So, did you understand my note?". If you don't say anything he'll act like it never happened.
2007-02-27 21:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by Jim C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go ahead ask him. feelings like love are better dealt spontaneously with giving a lot of thought. Ask him and ask whatever your heart tells you to ask. Don't plan or u will over do. good luck...GuruBhai.
2007-02-27 21:55:09 · answer #9 · answered by GuruBhai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be bold and blunt and just ask him kindly...... So what's the word? or How do you feel about me? I need to know. You got to be opened up and just come out with it. You will feel alot better. Just becareful what to say.
2007-02-27 21:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋