there is this co worker-he is 25 and i am 19 and he is engaged, but he flirts with me a lot,he always wants to know how old i am after i have told him, i came with a ripp sweater to work one day and he said"you wanna show off your nice tan? and every time we are sitting in a table for break, out of all the girls in the table, he always teases me in a joking way , he practically ignores the others and he also wanted to know my college schedule b/c we attend the same college and he said "so i know when to hide, when are you at school?" but he said it in like a joking way, and he got concerned for me when i told him i wanted to drop out of school.he always says hi and bye to me, i believe he knows i think he's cute, what do you think
2007-02-27 13:36:43 · 6 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Probably just being friendly. Here is the deal though.
If he is engaged and flirting with you, you don't want to be one of "those girls" who gets between them.
Also lets say he does leave his fiance for you. Do you really want to be with someone who would do that sort of thing. Who's to say he wouldn't do it to you.
2007-02-27 13:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's say he does like you. He does not hide it. Nor is he letting his engagement stop him. It could be just really friendly flirting. However, if things get much more intense between the two of you, he should be reminded that he is engaged and that out of respect for his fiance and for you to reason on what his actions are really based on. He may or may not be happy (who knows) but you cannot let yourself be put into a compromising position. Despite how nice it may seem, this is one of things that leads to headaches if not addressed correctly.
2007-02-27 21:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by realwrekonizereal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't make a difference or not if he likes you. He didn't get stuck having a fiance. He made the choice that he wants to spend the rest of his life with his fiance and he made that choice for a reason. He very well may be attracted to you, but don't get falsely misled into thinking his flirtation is more than just that. Men who flirt with women secretly do not have genuine interest in them. When they really want to be with a woman they show her off to their friends and family and it sounds like his fiance is the only woman he is publicly recognizing as the love of his life.
2007-02-28 00:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by vallygval 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with alwaysmoo-
You don't want to be "the other woman."
Being engaged is a serious commitment and it means he is about to enter into the biggest commitment of his life. That should tell you something about his character...and if you were to become involved with him, like others have said, he may do the same exact thing to you. There are a lot of great guys out there in their 20's... that aren't engaged... and would be very interested in you.
2007-02-27 22:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by mrsfloridalady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might like you, but you shouldnt go for it. he is engaged, which means he has given his heart to another women & if he has the indecency to flirt with you while engaged to her, he would obviously do that same thing to someone else, like you. But, he might not necesarily like you because since he is engaged he might want what he knows he can't have, but eventually he will realize why he was engaged to her in the first place leaving you hurt. the age difference could come into play, too. maybe he feels, older, & when he talks & flirts with you he feels just as young as you are. hope this helped.
2007-02-27 21:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by SRAH!ishawt! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could just be trying to be friendly. but, u never know. whatever you do, don't put a move on him too fast. that freaks guys out.
2007-02-27 21:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by alxgrcra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋