Please HELP ME?

Question

k first of all i love my boyfriend but my friend likes him too, so he had this idea that after we have sex they will have sex, and then well i think u get the picture, but anyways i said no, but my friend said yes!!!

Should i say yes so my boyfriend won't break-up with me or just stop being friends with my friend??????

please help, but heres the thing my boyfriend likes to do it alot, and i have to study for my test but he has such the right touch, and now i have know time to study!!!

and, i just love him so much, and i have to pass school to get a good job so what should i do???

Answer 1

1) you only LOVE someobody if you can picture yourself living with him for the rest of your life.
2) you shouldn't HAVE to try and "find ways to keep him liking you". He whould be chasing you, not the other way around.
3) that thing your friend said is so gross and totally barbaric! You SHOULD NEVER share YOUR boyfriend. Don't stop being her friend, but you shoudl tell her to back off because she is intruding on your relastionship with your boyfriend.
4) if your boyfriend is happy with the idea of having sex with you AND your friend.. then you should just drop him. You need a man who will have sex with YOU and ONLY YOU. A man should want to be around his girlfriend, not his girlfriend's friend. My friend knows my boyfriend pretty well, and says he's cute, but she knows better than to ask to have sex with him. how gross!!!
if all doesn't work, dump your friend, she is an idiot for ever ASKING you that.

Answer 2

You need to leave his *** alone. If you care about yourself and your needs, don't you think your worth the wait. Guys come and go and if I was you I would be all I can be and find someone who respects me. He doesn't respect you. If you were to let your friend sleep with him your friendship will fall apart. And how do you know there not sleeping together anyway? I would never jeopardize a friendship and why in the world would someone come up with that stupid idea anyway? Your not obligated to stay in relationships with anybody. You choose whats best for you. You need to put your foot down and decide whether or not if that's the type of lifestyle/relationship you want to have in your life. And you need to slow down or else you might expect something that your not ready to have (a baby or STD)

Answer 3

DO NOT LET YOUR FRIEND SLEEP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND. i think you should really be upset at the both of them for even thinking that, they might be fooling arund behind your back. you should also so set time aside for sex and studying, because you're going to look and and see that you haven't studied at all, and then what you flunk and end upi with a crappy job then you'll blame him

Answer 4

What does school have to do with anything? You'll get through school if you lose one friend. It's been done many times. Get rid of both creeps!!!! He wants to ditch you for your friend, and your friend wants to ditch you for him! You live in a messed up world, and you don't realize it yet, but getting involved with either of these people will create horrible memories in the future.

Answer 5

Honey.. your boyfriend is just trying to have sex with ANYONE by the sounds of it.If your friend sleeps with your boyfriend , she is NOT your friend! If he sleeps with her then he doesn't love OR respect you. Forget both of them. If you are questioning it now how are you going to feel later? Think about it.

Answer 6

firts of all no and you should tell your bofriend that he has to limit the sex alittle.