He said yes. Now what!?
We didn't talk about going to dinner or anything yet...should we? who should pay?
Shoudl I be the one to make the first move agian?
Does he like me?
anything else would be appreciated...I will pick a best answer
2007-02-27 13:32:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he didn't like you he would've said no to going to the prom with you,just call and talk to him,tell him you two need to plan prom out so it won't be las minute,nothing wrong with that. You know guys are not planners,most of the time the girl plans their prom
2007-02-27 13:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...the general rule of thumb is if you asked you should plan the evening and, yes, pay for it. If it were me you asked and I said yes, I would still pay for it but...that's me.
Start by calling him up again and just getting to know him. Ask him questions about himself including, in the middle, questions about what kind of foods he likes and restaurants. Then toward the end of the discussion ask him what he thinks about Prom night; i.e. where they should go? If you should go dutch (50/50)? If he is interested he will, at the very least, participate in the conversation unless he is extremely shy in which case he will need to be a man and step up.
If he said yes, it is very likely that he likes you.
I would make the next step by calling him and make sure you give him your number and let him know it is ok for him to call you. Then wait to see if he calls in the next few (3-5? days). If he does nothing and does not seem interested at all then you, my dear, have a choice to make about whether to un-invite him to the prom or make the best of it.
You can, also, if you are really not sure, ask him if he really wants to go to the prom with you or if just said yes b/c he did not know what to say. You have already asked the tough question so this is a follow-up/clarification question.
All My Best and regardless ENJOY your prom!
Make it a great night whomever you end up going with (him, another guy, or friends)!!!
MaxbpS
2007-02-27 21:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by Maxbps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off the guy usually ends up paying for it.
He must like you, or be desperate. But sense it is early, I think he may like you ;).
Now what I would do in your spot is to wait a week or two. He should be getting enough courage to talk to you again. If a week or two goes by and still he has not talked to him. I would make am move and ask him what he wants to do for the evening/night.
About dinner, thats a preference thing. If you like him and want to go to dinner suggest it. The worst thing he can do is say no.
Also you need to figure out who pays for what.
2007-02-27 21:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by Dublock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he'd like to go to dinner before the prom.. if he does then (and this goes for the prom tickets to) go 50/50 unless he offers to pay.
He obviously likes you, he's going to the prom with you!
as for first moves, if the time is right then go for it.. but wait for a moment when you feel comfortable and you two are alone/ or you know it's mutual.
2007-02-27 21:37:59 · answer #4 · answered by static_nerdling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's shy or nervous. The reality of it is that yes, sometimes the girl has to be the pursuer. Traditionally, the guy should pay...but that seems less of a steadfast rule these days. Still, I am old fashioned, so I think he should be paying unless he's poor or has some other extenuating circumstance. And yes...if he said 'yes' when you asked him, odds are he likes you ;-)
2007-02-27 21:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by CocoaBean316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok here it goes find a great resturaunt and make sure you make a reservation then find someone who will do your hair weather or not it is a professional then search for the perfect dress pick it out early so you are sure you can get the one you want. and if you want a limo make sure you book it now. and with the paying split guys like girl who will help pay as much as possible but make sure that he doesn't expect you to pay for everything oh and with the whole sex thing if you don't ok
2007-02-27 21:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by kryptonitegirl2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and the young man don't communicate any better than what you are indicating.......looks like neither is very interested in going to the prom. What are you going to do, go with a total stranger?
He hasn't called or contacted you? You may need to look for someone with a little more motivation and respect for you.
Good luck. Pops
2007-02-27 21:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to suggest it causually and subtley. If that does it get him to ask you than flat out tell him.
AND! You should probably let him make a move. You already made the bigger one, so now it's his turn.
Oh, and try not to take it too serious and get super into the "relationship" (emphasis on the quotation marks) the first week or so.
2007-02-27 21:39:43 · answer #8 · answered by the taino boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU invited him so of course you pay. You also make all of the arrangements for dinner etc. However it might be a good idea to ask him where he would like to go for dinner so you don't pick a place he doesn't like. I don't know if he likes you...he only accepted your invitation to the prom not a proposal of marriage.
2007-02-27 21:35:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
choose a couple options for a restaurant and then
ask him if he's interested in going to dinner afterward,
and then say, "i was thinking we could just split the cost of dinner
are you open to that?"
i dont think you should have to make any more 1st moves on this
guy. sounds like you've done enough.. UNLESS he's shy
and you just want to help him out by making the first move?
2007-02-27 21:38:03 · answer #10 · answered by devDillinger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋