He says they are just friends, but I am pretty upset about it...
2007-02-27 13:24:49 · 36 answers · asked by Kristy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have seen her. I don't think she is as pretty as me and she has a kid and was sleeping with their boss.
2007-02-27 13:28:51 · update #1
yes. he's cheeeaating on youuu.
2007-02-27 13:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You said all the time?!! It sounds like frequently... I think it's wrong... Guys have the tendency to keep flirting with other girls even though they are into a relationship, it's instict, and sometimes you have to keep him aware of it... Let him know that you are jealous of it, talk to him... It shows that you Love him and you care. You will for sure get his attention. If it still doesn't work, then time to do some action. First you have to evaluate and try to be calm. Are they really just friends? The only way to know for sure is to make friends with the girl. Like what they say keep your friends close and enemies closer. Girl to girl talk is easier and more civil. Just always remember to keep it private, try to be humble. Your actions will reflect your personality. Stay calm on whatever you find out, good or bad at least you did not loose face and you did something about it. Just remember Love requires trust.
2007-02-27 14:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by nel_occiano 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean "all the time"? If it were interrupting my relationship, I would be upset, and I'd say first he has a problem with cell phone addiction first. If he's texting her the same rate he's texting other people, or is comfortable reading them in front of you, or tells you what they say sometimes, I wouldn't be worried. It's when he starts hiding his phone or walking away to respond that I would be worried.
2007-02-27 13:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by halie_blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a fine line to cross. If they Are just friends then it shouldn't be a problem if you see his text history. Just ask see what kind of reaction you get from him. if you get a hell no then i would start questioning the nature of their "relationship" if he says fine then take a look. If you just sit and stew on it it will tear you guys up and you will end up apart anyway.
2007-02-27 13:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jake K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you rationally sat down and talked with him? You need to let him know how you feel. Otherwise, it is unfair not to let your boyfriend have friends that are girls. It isn't a big deal for him to be texting another girl, now if he acts shady about it... then yeah, something may be going on.
2007-02-27 13:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by Megan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily! We often spend more time with people at work then we do with others in our lives. I work in a field that is predominately women, we text each other occasionally. I'm married and my wife doesn't mind.
2007-02-27 13:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by John 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my fiance have been together for five years and we have had our ups and downs ( and alot of the downs were my fault) but i thot that we were past all of that and starting over. i was 3 months pregnant with our 3rd child and we were talkin bout getting married in may, so i thot things were well! then i noticed a change in the way he acted, he was wanting to stay over and work alot of overtime (which he was working cuz it was on his paystubs but.....), so i started to get suspecious and i checked the phone bill and sure enough he had been talking to this girl that he worked with on the phone and they had been texting one another! i went CRAZY!!! he swore up and down that nothing had happend between them and that they were just friends. i didnt have and proof that showed he was lying and i told him that i would believe him untill i had something showing other wise but that it was very disrespectful of him! you dont get that close with the opposite sex, even if your intentions arent to "mess around with them" cuz you know thats where it usually leads!!!!! so i think that you have EVERY right to be upset and i think that even if hes not messing around with her that out of respect for you he shouldnt text her anymore!
2007-02-27 13:46:44 · answer #7 · answered by hello :-) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you secure with your relationship? There might be problems with trust in your relationship.
He can't hide from all woman ... He should be able to text message a girl from work within reason ... not excessive.
2007-02-27 13:28:07 · answer #8 · answered by ValleyR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop or you're through with him. either that or start texting another guy all the time and see if he gets jealous. if he doesnt. then toss him out with the garbage with freshly peeled banana peels. um yeah
2007-02-27 13:28:53 · answer #9 · answered by slave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it is appropriate, what is the nature of the messages? flirtatious, friendly, work related? why not ask for a meeting, suggest you go out together if they just friends, why cant she be your friend too?
2007-02-27 13:28:45 · answer #10 · answered by sydneygal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he's wasting money and he should be working so yes he is wrong!
also he's cheating on you. You should start texting her too, and then things will get deliciously awkward.
2007-02-27 13:28:14 · answer #11 · answered by arsenic sauce 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋