what should u do (rape)?

Question

if your raped who should u tell and what shoud u do right after. do u have to tell your parents or police just to get checked for stuff? should u get checked if u know the person and know they dont have anything just in case.

Answer 1

don't shower or change, don't wash or anything. call the police. they will take you to the hospital to get checked out. yes, your parents need to be notified.

also look on the internet (or in the front of your phone book at home) for support groups and help lines that will help you work through all of this. Don't keep it inside, don't keep it a secret. Don't give up - seek justice. God be with you.

Answer 2

First thing is you call the police, yes you have to tell your parents because there will more than likely be a hearing at least if not a trial and if you are a minor the police will be notifying your parents anyway. The police will more than likely have you taken to a local clinic to have a doctor look at you, they will take all necessary evidence. (swab your vainia, anus, mouth, make you clip your fingernails and place the clippings into a plastic container, they will clip a lock of your hair) You will probably be given the morning after pill with instrutcions to make a follow up appointment with your doctor for 6 weeks for a pregnancy test just to be sure. You will probably also be given an appointment with a psychologist who will evaluate you and determine whether you need therapy or not. Whether you know the person who raped you or not is not a guarantee that they don't have "anything" it can take 10 to 15 years for HIV to present even though the the carrier is contagious from the time they contract the disease. It can take HPV 10 years to present evven though the carrier is contagious from the time they contract the disease whether or not they have had any outbreaks, at the exam you will be given instructions on when to go for those tests and it is in your best interest to do so, you don't want to be responsible for infecting someone you love with HIV 10 years from now do you?

Answer 3

Tell your parents is the #1 thing to do. Later on I think your parents call the police. Really go to a doctor too, to check you out.

Answer 4

Call the cops then go to the hospital. You will get checked for harm and evidence will be taken. You'll be given medication for any STDs he might have transmitted and probably the morning after pill too. If you are underage then the police will probably tell your parents.

Absolutely tell the police. Then absolutely tell your parents

Answer 5

First I want to say I am sorry if this has happend to you. The frst thing you need to do is get to a safe place. then go to the hospital they will do a rape kit on you and test you for std's. if you want to press charges then tell the hospital they will contact to police who will send someone over to talk with you and take a report. You really ought to tell your parents but you do not have to but if you are under 18 then the hospital will. but remeber you did nothing wrong so it is NOT your fault and you have no need to be ashamed of what happend.

Answer 6

Wow there carmon, if you or anyone you know was raped then tell you parents immediately, because that is against the law no matter what the circumstances were in the situation. TELL YOUR PARENTS ASAP. If you or your friend is scared then talk to a friends parents. But it must be done to avoid it from happening again and to punish the person who did it.

Answer 7

First, recognize & understand that you are not at fault.

See if your community has a rape crisis center or team. They'll help you report the crime to the police and get you the support you need.

You need to get medical attention, too. The crisis team can assist with that, too.

You'll then need to make the difficult decision as to wether or not to press charges against the rapist.

Don't delay another minute!

Answer 8

You don't HAVE to tell anyone. However, you SHOULD go to a hospital and have them go through the rape kit - D&C to make sure you don't get pregnant, testing, and all that. You don't have to press charges, but they're going to contact your parents if you're underage.

I'm concerned that this person would know the person who raped her. This person should not know that person any longer. And she should press charges, so he doesn't do it to any more people. And I doubt she KNOWS he doesn't have anything - she thought she knew him before, and then he raped her.

Talk to a trusted adult, no matter what.

Answer 9

And yeah call the cops incase they have to do swabs or whatever, i'm not sure of the procedure.

And then i'd say if you're young (maybe even if you aren't young) tell your parents or a good friend who can help you go to the police.

Take the morning after pill as to make sure you dont get pregnant.


Then get your older brother or friends to go over to that guys house and beat his a** down to the ground.

Answer 10

Do all of the necessary precautions because you want to make sure that your fine physically and mentally. Don't feel ashamed and embarrassed because its not your fault. It takes a real person to know when they think you're starting to feel uncomfortable. And if he didn't realize then, he needs to know now. Don't let him get away with it, because if you do he might do the same thing to someone else and someone needs to put him in jail. The best person to tell is someone that is opened minded and not someone who is going to put you down. The first first thing you should do is to call the authorities (911)