What do i do?? boy help!?

Question

OK well i know im only 13 but everyone else at my school has a boyfriend and ive only had 1 -for 3 days - last year - and i havent lost my first kiss or anything. i feel like so... idk UGLY like no one will ever like me / but ive liked so many other people!! i feel like i want a bf so bad!! what should i do...
i always talk to guys but nuthing happens

advice advice advice!! :l

Answer 1

Don't get a boyfriend just for the sake of getting a boyfriend. You'll get stuck with someone you don't really like.

If not having a boyfriend makes you feel "left out", then you'll end up staying in a bad relationship just to avoid being "left out" again. It's better to have regular friends.

Join a group or an activity of some sort that has both boys and girls. That way, there will be boys that you share a common interest with.

Also, before you can get someone else to like you, you have to like yourself. If you feel ugly, you need to talk to a counselor and get your feelings about yourself sorted out.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Alright, let's slow down. I'm pretty much an expert in boys. First, you must act natural around them. Boys hate it when girls act all phony and stuff. If you act natural, a boy might come to you that is attracted to you because he has the same things in common with you. if you act all phony, you're going to realize they don't wanna hang with you and you having nothing in common.
Next, DO NOT EVER follow this boy around like a dog. Boys HATE that. I mean HATE. give the guy some air, and let him hang around with his homeboys
Don't get your friends involved too much. I know they mean good, but not in this particualar situation. First Kelly tells Shawn. Shawn tells Deb and Dan. Deb and Dan tell Kathy, Josh, Ronald, and Shelly. Then the whole school. Seriously, THAT'S HOW IT WORKS OUT. No matter how big or small the school, their gonna know soon.
Alright, let's say you guys are together now. Take a minute to breathe. Think of everything about him and you. Do you have good chemestry? Is he nice to other people? Do you guys have a lot in common? Just think about some of those things. If all of them honestly do apply, then it's a pretty good match.
Lastly, DO NOT ever ignore your best friends, and only hang out with this boy. Boys come and go, but friends stay for long.

Answer 3

I think you are trying to hard! You are so young and shouldn't be hurrying so much into having a boyfriend! Just because everyone else at school has a boyfriend doesn't mean that you have to have one too! You have to be ready and grow up a bit, I think you have plenty of time and you should slow down. I hope that you meet a nice boy one day. Good Luck!!!

Answer 4

Be patient and these things will come. You have a lot of time to pass by so don't fret too much. You aer still very young. Many parents do not wish their teens to date until 16, or even 18. Now is the time to focus in on school work and activities. Even if all the other girls are doing, it is better to wait.

Answer 5

Well i'm 13 as well and i was having boy problems in 6 th grade but since the summer that i went through from elementary school to junior high i've completly changed. What I'm trying to say is that you just need a makeover and start growing out of your shell and don't be all shy it help. Go around complementing boys and find one you really think you ahve a chance with and is single and ask him out. It works for me. If you need any more help email me as [e-mail] or [e-mail]

Answer 6

Well I'm 14 and i last had a bf when i was like 10 and truth be told he only dated me because his friend dared me to.. Guys aren't all they crack up to be.. they make you think they like you and then you realize you were either a booty call or a bet. But anyways... even tho i dint have a boyfriend,,, i know I'm pretty and i don't care what all the guys think... Just ask a guy you like if he wants to hang out.. you may be surprised with what people do and say and it may help if you ask a friend to ask for you... But your young and you don't need a bf

Answer 7

there is aboslutely nuttin wrong wit u unless u have liek greenskiin with purple hair and blue teeth, so dont worry about it, i mean really wht is the point of having a BF at the age of 13 ur not going to marry them, you should actually be happy tht u dont have 1 rite now cuz whts the point of getting one to just have fun with him 4 like a month or a week or sumthin like tht, plus if you get one and something bad happes wht is the point of crying over it at the age or 13 or 14 in my opinion i would just let it be and let all the other 13 year old gurls go out wit all the guys they want cuz we all noe tht isn't gunna last so dont worry nuttin is wrong wit u

Answer 8

mk im 13 too and ALOT of guys like me, but you know what?? half of them arent even worth looking at. But ive had 2 bfs mii 7th grade year and i dont regret them, if anything we have become close friends and are happy 4 each other and love each other dearly. But no, i havent had my 1st kiss yet but I am saving that for a really special guy that will sweep me off mii feet. so dont wrry just stay confident

Answer 9

girl you dont need a man to enjoy life espiecally being 13 everyone else got one so what your unique and youll find someone even greatre if you take your time that what i did i just enjoyed life with my frnds n famliy till the right guy came to the right lady ive been with him for 3 yrs now n i stilll love him! enjoy life dont let pitiful things get you down rock out in your own way you shldnt depend on others thatll lead to a big disapointment trust me all you need is you you have your whole life ahead of you it may be annoying but its worth it

Answer 10

I felt the same way last year. Trust me the feeling will go away. Just start flirting more and maybe its your appearance. I noticed that since I grew up I got boyz waitin by the phone!