i started talking to this guy and i feel like i like him so much,its so easy to talk to him????? i'm never like this,ever!! we were suppose to meet twice already and it never happened, i'm just freaked out cause the more we talk the closer i feel ,its so weird ??is this wat online dating is like 4 everyone????wats gonna happen when i meet him???
2007-02-27 13:20:34 · 7 answers · asked by sleepy18427 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm in the same situation you are in right now. I am totally in love with a woman I've never seen in person. We talk on-line and on the phone occasionally, but that's it. If you don't believe it can happen, use this theory to help you. How do real life blind people fall in love? They never get to see who they fell in love with. They have to rely on other senses and instincts. This allows you to know the person from the inside.
2007-02-27 13:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who knows what could happen to you, but let me tell you about me... I met a wonderful guy whom I met online, everything started with his text messaging, then the phone calls; now, we're living together. I was only looking for a friend, but now I have him with me. We have been through very hard times, and sometimes I feel like we shouldn't be together at all. He hasn't treated me bad or anything, but he is quite young (24, I am 36). I have fallen in love with him and now he has been telling me that he has to go back because his mother is sick. I have no proof of this and I feel like he's just trying to let me go without hurting me. I have told him what I think and he's really been hurt because of my doubt. Oh, well, I am a grown woman and I knew something like that was bound to happen - I knew there was a risk; so guess what? I am enjoying him, his caress, his love, his attention for as long as it goes, and then, I will keep my memories and go on with life. Only time will tell and if he comes back then that means that he really loved me. After all, risks is what life is all about. Now, it is only up to you to do whatever and if you still haven't met him; don't push it - maybe it's not meant to be or you can end up with a broken heart like me. Take care and I hope everything goes well.
2007-02-27 21:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyinred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing happen a few years ago. He was great in person for 3 months and then the walls came down. He was a total jerk and had not presented his real self to me on-line at all. I would NEVER on line date again nor would I recommend it to anyone I know. You can never get to know the real person.
2007-02-27 21:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE proceed with caution!!!!! Have you actually seen this guy on cam? Do you REALLY know who your chattin with?
If you feel you must meet him in person someday......DO NOT go alone!!!! Meet in a public place.
Sorry, don't wanna sound like a worried parent...just don't want you to become another statistic.
2007-02-27 21:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey its very possible to fall in love with someone online if you feel it real it can be ..All so be aware that people can deceive you very easy, make sure .......Good Luck
2007-02-27 21:28:05 · answer #5 · answered by Corey R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE CAREFUL - What you are feeling is LUST!
Been there, done that and have an evil ex-husband to show for it. At least, I have the most gorgeous baby boy to show for the madness!
:)
2007-02-27 21:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens. ;). you sure he is safe? mite want to go in a public area when meeting, maybe even with a friend if you must :).
2007-02-27 21:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋