how to you get a guy who is really shy to talk to u? i am not good at makin the first move
2007-02-27 13:18:56 · 19 answers · asked by brunet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try http://www.shynessexpress.com
it had some good shyness techniques
2007-02-27 13:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say hello and start a conversation.
I have made many friends with shy people this way.
Pass him your phone number or ask for his- but being a shy person he may think you are too forward or if he likes you he will be excited to have your number to call.
The ego is fragile. Friendship and respect is important above all else if you are to build a friendship that may lead to more while you get to know eachother.
Ask him to hang out with you at a bookstore or with some friends. If your family is open to your new friends see if you can invite him to a family function. Do not feel sad if he declines but, if you ask enough times things will move forward one way or another.
2007-02-27 21:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy. I'm shy. I open up easily and very quickly to girls who take the first step. The only problem is that there are very few girls who do. So if you do, that's a HUGE advantage.
Start the first conversation about something simple like school, weather, current events, etc. By the end of the conversation ask for phone number and email. And BOOM - you're in. Instantly. That works.
2007-02-27 21:22:50 · answer #3 · answered by mukwonago53149 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on. You are a girl. You always have the upper hand. It's so much easier for a girl to start a conversation than a guy. Just go up and say "Hey, how are you doing? Whats going on?" How hard is that? Break the ice. Good luck with the dude ;)
2007-02-27 21:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by C L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk about anything.... some small thing that happened at school , on the bus, at work ,on tv that you know you both experienced or know about. It is called small talk, you do this enough you will win his confidence, and then you maybe unable to shut him up.... good luck
2007-02-27 21:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he really shy, you going to have to make the first move! just start chatting about everyday stuff, ask for his opinion on something, be natural and laid back and see what happens
2007-02-27 21:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by sydneygal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will just have to carry the conversation at first. Eventually he should open up and start talking.
2007-02-27 21:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a boyfriend that was like that. I found out what he liked and found out it was electronics and video games (we were in high school) i asked him to go to the mall with me to help get a stereo and he went for it and went with me. We were together for 4 years. It sounds stupid but it works.
2007-02-27 21:30:32 · answer #8 · answered by wizardmerman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about something he really likes, just a little at a time, because you don't want to overwhelm him, and sooner or later you two will start talking more. making him laugh is always a plus. or ask him a questiong about something you know he knows about and you are clueless at.
2007-02-27 21:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by altenacarla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get one of ur friends to talk to him 4 u
2007-02-27 21:21:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
find some comon groun every one has something that they like to talk about try and find out what it is then strike up a sentece with that topic.
2007-02-27 21:24:01 · answer #11 · answered by dead man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋