ok a couple weeks ago...i gave this girl in my class a really nice v-day home made...although we havnt spoken much...i wanted to surprise her....anyways ...she doesn do much at all...i mean usually when u recieve somethin like this from a guy...u will at least say "hey..thnx for u r card it was really thoughtfull.." the next day but what do i get ???NOTHIN ....anyways what can i do to find out if she is really fricken shy but likes me...or just not interested?
but sometimes she takes notice of me...like when we pass each other...we make eye contact which is something we didnt do before...i know its not much but...its something lol .....and also...i asked her friends if she said anything about me ....nothing
2007-02-27 13:17:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to speak to her directly, that the only way u gonna find out what she thinks of you!
2007-02-27 13:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by sydneygal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like her just because of her looks? SHe sounds like the type that can basically get any guy she wants so she doesnt understand the need for common courtesy.
Either that or you totally weirded her out and she was speechless and too embarrassed to tell her friends about it.
I am not trying to be mean, just sharing some of my own experiences with you.
You have nothing to be ashamed of though. Most girls would love that kind of attention.
2007-02-27 21:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Cuppycake♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes just being shy... probably doesnt have much experience with guys... you just need to be straight forward with her... go up to her and ask if she liked the card and then ask her if shed like to hang out or have dinner one night? When she answers and how she answers will tell you if she likes you or not
2007-02-27 21:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by Josh M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact is NOTHING. I share eye contact with a number of people when I'm out, shopping etc. It doesn't mean I am interested in them. It simply means I acknowledge their presence. She has said nothing about you...so take the hint she is NOT INTERESTED.
2007-02-27 21:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to smile at her and make conversation with her. She might not be sure how to react to you giving her a card if you haven't had much contact. She'll warm up to you eventually and then when she does talk to her about it. Good Luck!!
2007-03-03 20:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she hasn't talked about you to others, it seems like she's not interested.
Don't force the issue. If she's not interested, she's not interested. Keep looking for another girl ... preferably one that likes some of the same things you do.
Good luck.
2007-02-27 21:22:44 · answer #6 · answered by jackalanhyde 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next!
2007-02-27 21:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach her, have casual conversation. If she is into you, she's waiting for you to make a move, if not, then you still have a chance of being friends right? Good Luck!
2007-02-27 21:21:52 · answer #8 · answered by May E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude relax when you like a girl you take it smooth you gotta start to know her and talk to her before you REALLY know if she likes you and keep impressing her with that kinda stuff but, dont spend to much money then you have to alot 2 keep impressing her
2007-02-27 21:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably a shy girl who's afraid to express her feelings.
Ask her friends to ask her what she thinks of you..
2007-02-27 21:20:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋