k my life is officialy in the shitter cause im the shyest person on earth i have 3 friends 1, hes gay and jsut trys to be a poser and is annoying. (i hate him) 2, hes also lame he makes fun of me and jsut dont care. (i want to kill him :) 3, my cuz! i love her and she loves me and were really tight. umm.. i never have had a gf and probly never will. my grades suck! i just cant stay focosed im to busy thinking if i was in a band or had a gf or just plain on my own.
i dont like my mom or dad. my little brother is cool iguess. and iv sorta turned my back on god. but i dont want to really just i can never really change without his help and he isnt really responding. and i feel like it doesnt mater wat happens to me cause its JUST ME y'know.. well i guess my biggest problem is how im sooooo shy.. what tthhee HELL do i do? oh and the only thing i really do is listen to music and play the guitar... well and sit on the computer all day.. and tv. so ya wat do i do?
thanx (if u answer)
2007-02-27 13:04:40 · 4 answers · asked by Josh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm i use to feel super shy too and it always felt like the worl dwas collapsing around me and i couldnt do much bout it cause i judidnt like speaking..But one thing i think helped me was finding a job that is in a social place... i think it helped because 1) you HAVE to talk to customers if u like em or nto.. and 2) u start to make more friends as you go and start to come out of your shell.. Like n o i really dont care what people think of me and i can pretty much say whats on my mind most of the time... i hope that helps
2007-02-28 13:36:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first off... How old are you? Makes it a little difficult to give you help since I don't know your age... But, lets pretend you are a teenager, between 16-18, since you say your grades suck, I'm only to assume you are in Highschool...less you are in college.. whose to say.
As far as the gf thing goes... Don't rush it, you'll find someone who compliments you as you will with her.. It's only a matter of time, and the only think you need to focus on right now is your school work, and whatever keeps you happy.
Get a hobby, you say you play guitar, take that up.. Why not look for a band to take part in? That's a start... or get a job after school, some where like a clothing store, or a food joint, that's an easy way to over-come your shy'ness... You'll have no choice but to deal with people.
Everybody is a bit shy, admit it or not.. they are. Infact, it's cute that you are shy, it's better than being totally conceited you know, or loud and obnoxcious.
Not everybody likes their parents, but learn to like them, because one day when you are ready to like them and take part in a life with them... you'll turn around and they wont be there.. I dont know what to say about God, as I don't really believe in him, I won't delve into that b/c its a little personal, but I'm sure what you believe in is watchin your back... You just have to look at the postive side of things.
You'll get over your little issues you have, I'm only to assume you are young, and you have your whole life ahead of you. Don't let the little sh|t hold you back.
You'll figure things out, promise =)
2007-02-27 21:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by ROOR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger I felt the same way. My grades sucked, my mom annoyed me and I certainly wasn't focused. I was also very very shy. I'm in my early twenties and I'm going to college and now I'm more loud and out-going than I've ever been. I have come from not saying anything to anybody to trying to stop myself from saying everything to everybody. The lesson I learned from this experience is that things can drastically change for the better. Things will change for you. You're cute, you play the guitar and you seem like you have a lot of energy. You just need to focus that energy on the right things and you'll be alright.
2007-02-27 22:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by Pseudonym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and find some new friends to hang out with and they may open your world up to new experiences. Try to get over your shyness a little at a time, try talking to someone new everyday and try not to care what people think of you, we are all different that is what makes all of us special. Get off the computer and go out in the world and have some fun!!you are only here on earth a short time so enjoy every moment.Good Luck to you
2007-02-27 21:40:42 · answer #4 · answered by Urchin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋