..me and my boyfriend have both agreed that this second shot at a relationship hasn't been going so well......so we're agreed to end it......however, neither one of us is good at change and, we've been dating on and off ( only off once ) for over a year...so we decided to take it slow with the whole "letting go" thing.......we both agreed.....no one was pressured......i did a good thing right thing by doing this???...i mean, since we both don't handle change well......it's better to do this than not go cold turkey right????
2007-02-27 12:59:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...ok...is noooo onne getting the fact that we're bad with change???..we've been dating for over a year people!!..and it's not that it's bad, we're just not good at it....and i will be friends with him because we were best friends before....ok...more comments please :)
2007-02-27 13:21:03 · update #1
change is difficult but anyone can overcome it,of course you did the right thing,,
2007-02-27 13:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by salvador l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i know the relationship is bad, I end it and just let go totally. No friendship, no calls, none of that. I just take a clean break and realize it is not a reflection on me in the future and try to stay positive in the single life.
2007-02-27 21:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. By dragging it out, you're just prolonging all the emotions, problems, and pain you'd face if you just ended it. Not trying to sound harsh, but if you're going to end it, end it now and get it over with, and save yourself alot of hassle.
2007-02-27 21:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by xletxmexgox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just end it thats what happened to my bf and me so we just decided to date other people for a while.
2007-02-27 21:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just end it. neither one of you want to be alone. thats why your clinging to each other.
2007-02-27 21:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PErfection. You did great.
2007-02-27 21:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will only prolong the ending this way, Please move on it is the only way
2007-02-27 21:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by tastyflow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋