I am in my 30's and 1mo ago my ex-boyfriend wanted to end our relationship because we live on opposites sides of the country. I have recently started to date someone, but I feel that I'm using him as a replacement to get over my ex. I still have tons of feelings for my ex and he still calls a few times a week. Is it wrong to continue to date this other person?
2007-02-27 12:26:12 · 9 answers · asked by random 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"I'm using him as a replacement "
I think you already know the answer to your question.
2007-02-27 12:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not wrong but, in my opinion, a waste of time to hanker over an ex who is a country's length away.
Ya know the old saying, "The grass is always greener..."
Get over the ex, date a few new guys and find someone who lives around the corner to start a new relationship with.
2007-02-27 20:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by Blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, dear, I am not even in high school yet but I watch shows were this happens. Maybe you should wait before dating someone else if you are that sad. Or ask you ex-boyfriend to get back together with you. I personally think that, although they are tough, a long distance relationship seems more romantic. Letters of love............ The fact that they are taking time to call you when you are on the other side of the country seems sweet to me! Tell him this and maybe he will get back together with you. If he realizes how cool long distance relationships are, maybe he will reconsider!!!
Kendall
2007-02-27 20:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by LittleLucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break it off with one of them. Sounds like the ex is sending mixed signals. Tell them to stop calling you as you are trying to make something work with someone new. If that doesn't make the ex want you back then you have to cut him loose. Give the new guy a chance, you may find out you actually like him. If there is no spark, then cut that one loose too. Take time for yourself before you jump into another relationship.
2007-02-27 20:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not really, if you are really open to that fellow he will help you see things differently. and it will help you move on if you guy do alot of things together for fun. he can help you get the other guy off your mind. if you keep up with being clingy of the memories of ur ex it will hurt the new relationship and you can loose a great guy who can do better thigns for you. guys are not all the same. you need to move on. if staying in the past will mess up your life as well.
2007-02-27 20:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by beautywarrior_5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just dating a girl that i fell for, and find that she's not over her ex, and now she's broken my heart into a billion ******* pieces. Leave the kid alone, and figure **** out for yourself.
But you know what, I'm still in love with that girl, and my stupid *** feels like i can wait for her.
2007-02-27 21:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can date him and see how it goes. If you know after several dates you are still not over your ex, them don't date him anymore. Also, your ex should not call you until you are over him completely. Its not fair to you.
2007-02-27 20:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is, because your dating him for the wrong reasons, im sure you wouldn't want to be used like that. Its fine to still date your ex cause it sounds like you love him. but dont hurt your current bfs heart by using him
2007-02-27 20:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by i luv all yalls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl aint nothing wrong with that u better have fun while u can
2007-02-27 20:29:56 · answer #9 · answered by ~Tranell~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋