So there's this really really long and involved story with this guy. But the weird thing is, we don't...talk to each other, if that makes any sense. And its not like anything happened. Just last year we sat next to each other in one class and would randomly make eye contact and sort of smile, but nothing more than that. He would sort of flirt with me too, but I was too much of a retard then to know that he was flirting.
Then he did something that made him popular. (Not bad or anything; I just don't want to go into it. And he didn't do it to become popular. It just sort of worked out that way...)
So now, every time I see him in the hall, he'll kind of half-smile when he sees me. There's more details than that, but again...long story. Sometimes he'll randomly bump into me, too. Not in a mean way, just, ya, you know.
(More in additional detials sorry!!!)
2007-02-27 12:13:38 · 8 answers · asked by ænima 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But he and this girl are going out. And it seems like, when they are in the hall together, he acts all sweet toward her and stuff, but if he happens to see me looking then he'll sort of inch away or something like that.
Or this one time they were hugging, and he saw me and kind of took a step away. Or today, she was about to give him a kiss on the cheek, but then he gave me this sort of "I'm sorry" look and hugged her instead.
They used to walk together after this one class and I was always behind them, but they don't do that anymore.
And its not like I can just randomly go up to him and be like "Do you like me?" becuase he has a girlfriend.
Also I get SUPER SUPER nervous, actually one time to the point of getting nauseous...
I don't know if I'm just putting things together if I want them to be there, or if he actually likes me.
Sorry its so long, but I wanted to make sure everything was there.
Thanks for any answers!!!
(Please don't say "What is the question?", etc)
2007-02-27 12:15:27 · update #1
It could be a case of wishful thinking on your part, because it sounds like you really are interested in him, but what makes you interested? Do you even really know him at all?
I think people can "build a case" for people that they don't even know if they think hard enough, and it sounds like that here, too. Without even a real conversation, it's hard to imagine a relationship or dating. He is dating someone already, and I doubt that he would shy away from her based on seeing someone that he sits beside in class that he hasn't even talked to, yet.
On the other hand: it DOES sound like he wants to get to know you better, but BOTH of you are so shy!! One of you is going to have to get over it, and take a step somehow!! Nothing is ever going to happen if one of you doesn't speak to someone!! He is going to be with his other girl seriously if you don't make a move toward him soon.
Find something to talk to him about, or just give him your number or something. Make something happen to let him know you are at least interesting in furthering the flirtation so that he doesn't make his other relationship more serious. Until that happens, I don't think you have much to go on just in looking at him and in half smiles in the hall.
You have to do a little work. It's hard, I know! But you can do it!!
2007-02-27 12:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by luvmelodio 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
well interesting story, i think you don't like him he's just flirting you he may wanna cheat his girlfriend, or he just want you as 1 friend
but do you like him? he likes you back? answers to this are difficult to find out now, but you could ask to one of his friends, also popular guys just flirt to all the girls, but only one (mostly time is one) is the choosen one, just let him he's just playing with your feelings and i recommend you to test yourself if you love him or is just the emotion of a guy flirts you, thats nice and get high the alter ego, just ask that yourself and contact me on my yahoo answers account lee_t78 to tell me what get up, i don't have any mail, just write me a question or an answer, hopefully for your luck, my best wishes Lee
2007-02-27 12:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks liike you didnt make the 1st contact as he xpect u to..but then again..for what u see is what the real thing is about..just to be sure..and 100% sure..if u f the guts..nahh..just stay away from him..he's not for u..better move on..keep going..
2007-02-27 12:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jebatasmara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes u but doesnt know what to do baceause he maybe as confused about if u like him as u r... try doing something that may give him a little hint. from what it seems, he likes u
2007-03-02 16:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by mary m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are confused and young now but one day you will be older and wiser and really look back and think what was i thinking I need a real relationship with someone who actually talks to me
2007-02-27 12:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say, wait and see. Personally I wouldn't do anything until I knew he was single--could get messy, you know? Just bide your time.
2007-02-27 12:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by Kim 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
eliminate the other gal has a competitor and take the cake.
2007-03-07 10:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by mitchgosse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes you!!! smile back and if he gives you a "im sorry" look the give him a "i dont care " or "its ok" look.
good luck.
2007-02-27 12:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋