Hi readers,my bf and i hav been together close to 2months.We've been having unprotected sex,i asked him if we could start usin protection but he insisted that we both faithful 2 eacthother so whats the point. Bein dumb i also fell for it but i guess it was the love flow between us,recently things hav not been goin well btwin us,he's bee n givin me a cold shoulder,ignorin mi calls always claimin to be hangin out wit the guys on sat etc...
3days ago i felt some pains durin urinatin but now the pains seem to be more sharp and am actually urinatin blood.Could this be a symptom of an std or something? asked mi bf if i was the only gurl he's been sleepin with but as usual,not givin me str8 answers.we both goin to see our gp's 2moz,but i need some assurance that it's nothin serious.Help me please
2007-02-27 11:52:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only way to be sure that you are safe and sound is to go the doctors and get checked out ASAP- Painful urination is usually a sign of a STD; so don' waste your time. The sooner you have that looked at, the better it is for you. Also note that usually men don't show or are slow show any symptoms of a sexually transmitted disease than women. Also if left untreated, it could cause irreverseable damage to your reproductive organs, create further health complications, even death ( in the case of syphillis)
Also, God willing you don't have anything at all, you're pregnant, or you have something curable, next time don't be so naive. Always have protected sex if you're going to have it.. otherwise don't have it at all.. unless both of you are sure that you are in a stable monogamous relationship.. Even then it's hard because it's always gonna be about 'he said, she said'.. so you'll have to go with your gut instincts on whether you should trust the person or not.
The best advice that i could give you is to get tested ASAP. If you are uninsured or have little coverage, try Planned Parenthood or your local Department of Health.. they usually offer STD and HIV tests to the public for free.
All in all.. Good luck.. I wish you well
2007-02-27 12:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by Eric I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yikes! that's a scary situation. definitely go to the doctor. Not to scare you, but there is a possibility that it could be an STD. Especially if he hasn't been faithful. also, some STD's don't have symptoms for men but men can pass them on. you should get checked out and make sure that you tell the doctor ALL of you past sexual history. If it turns out that it is something serious don't panic. STD's like Chlamydia can be cured with an antibiotic. But make sure you tell him. If he doesnt know than he can spread it to anyone he has sex with. However, there is the possibility that you just have a bladder infection. but you still need to get checked out. Good Luck with everything. I hope everything turns out for the best for you.
2007-02-27 20:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by snowy_alp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya it could be an std. you need to go to the doctor cuz peeing out blood is not a good thing.he could of had the std before you got with him but if hes not around anymore hes most likely screwing around.sorry i think you should look for a real man.
2007-02-27 19:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by india 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im srry to say that if you are urinating blood and feeling pains then yes it could be signs of an std and you should go to the doctor or the emergency room and get it checked as soon as u possibly can.And if your bf isnt listening to your concerns on safe sex then maybe he just isnt the right one for you im srry to say.
2007-02-27 19:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by Tati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your peeing blood you could just have a kindey infection or a bladder infection, your best bet is to go to the doctor and have them check it out, as much as everyone hates to go better safe then sorry!!!
2007-02-27 19:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by jodi w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like a bladder infection....you need to see your Dr. or get seen in an Urgent care and get put on antibiotics and pain medicine....It really doesn't sound like an STD, but please pay attention to how you wipe and how he touches you....by this I mean....always go from front to back when wiping and never let him touch you the wrong way in which could bring bacteria to your vaginal opening...just be careful...
2007-02-27 19:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could have a kidney infection you need to go see a Dr.
2007-02-27 19:57:14 · answer #7 · answered by Denny O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a free clinic,You can find one in the phone book.Definitely get tested.
2007-02-27 19:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds serious, peeing blood is very bad go to the doctor, and drop him! my EX did this to me ih ditched me every sat...for what girl i donno....you need to take care of yourself and forget him
2007-02-27 19:56:20 · answer #9 · answered by CRAZY 8 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
evr thought it might b a period? he might b steril
2007-02-27 19:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by jbgoldengun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋