theres this kid and we know we both like eachother alot,he even told me he wants to get to know me more before he asks me out,i think its because he doesnt want to rush anything.he also said we should go back to my place and watch a movie or something but he does know i DONT hookup with guys or anything,maby he said that because we had nothing else to do.we have like everything in common ecept i dont drink and smoke.he told me what he looks for in a girl and he has his head on straight,but he told me he also wants a girl who will at least drink 1 bottle of beer or a little bit not much at all.he told me both sides of his families were alchoholic so maby tragety becomes attraction? he pressures me nicely but gives up after like 3 times but why does he do this? how can i help myself or this problem by not getting pressured when saying no?
2007-02-27 11:51:29 · 10 answers · asked by emeralcoastsurfgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy has control issues - move on.
2007-02-27 11:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by Ta Dah! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to him in a serious yet sentimental tone. If you don't want to drink don't. It's not worth hurting your body. If he really cares he will realise you are serious and shouldn't pressure you anymore. It may take some time though, try to get him to give up after, say 2 times, and keep going. Hope this helped a little, good luck. :]
2007-02-27 19:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by paintballer9438 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well if hes pressuring you then how can he like you if hes making you do something you dont want to you can say no and still get to know him if he likes like he says he does he wont care if you drink or not
2007-02-27 19:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by lopez_oneyda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, WALK AWAY! Nothing good can come from it. If you don't want to kick him to the curve then you need to put your foot down and tell him I do not drink so do not ask me. I mean you would not tell him come on try crack, just a little. RIGHT?
2007-02-27 19:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by Cali Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might just be saying that cuz he doesnt like to drink alone.
as long as you ONLY have like one beer not a biggie just make sure theres NOTHING in it but beer. I know you probably trust him but now-a-days you never know who you can trust and who will drug you just for fun, be safe in all ways cuz you never know whats gonna happen next.
hope this helps you out =]
2007-02-27 20:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by *B.S.S.F.P* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK DO NOT EVER GIVE IN. Stick to your guns. He is not listening to you at all.You should never haft to tell him more than once . NO means NO period.If he keeps it up.You need to rethink about being with him Ok.You are better than that.You have high standereds and keep them. I admirer you for this.RAY
2007-02-27 19:57:17 · answer #6 · answered by ????????????????????? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes trying to get you wasted so he could get into your pants, if you already told him you dont drink and he keeps pressuring you find someone else
2007-02-27 19:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by ddcass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be with any one who is pressuring you to do any thing if he really liked you he wouldn't ask maybe he thinks he can change you into something you are not
2007-02-27 19:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont you kinda sometimes think that he might wanna slee with you as in have sex, al i have to say is once you lose it, you'll NEVER get it back!! S.E.X. take a deep breath and think before you let it gooooo
2007-02-27 19:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by kiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz he wants a girl who will get drunk with him.......
2007-02-27 19:54:37 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ ♫ lauren ♫ ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋