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this year i met who i thought was the perfect guy for me. im not the type of girl who trusts guys easily,since every male in my family has left me, yet this guy was different and the second i saw him,i fell in love. i opened up to him like never before. our relationship was really serious but parental interference messed everything up and we were forced to go on break. but throughout the break we still hung out and acted like we were together, it just wasnt official. not too long agowe finally got back together and i couldnt be more happier, he truely is an amazing guy, but just yesterday i found out he did stuff with another girl during that break nothing serious but it still hurt. it hurts that he didnt tell me and i had to find out through someone else thats low. the fact that he begged me every moment of the break to get back together..and to not do anything with anyone else makes him so hypocritical..i love him still & i know he regrets it. please help. i know he loves me to.help

2007-02-27 11:49:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Maybe he made a mistake and feels really bad about it. If he regrets it then maybe you should forgive him. But if he ever does that again break up with him immeadiately! If you love him and he loves you back, try going out again! Good Luck ♥♥♥

2007-02-27 11:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Emily♥ 3 · 0 0

Well Cookie you're probably not going to like what I'm going to tell you. Yes everyone makes mistakes, but the fact that he didn't try to fix it by telling you the truth and apologizing is telling me that he's not sorry. Unless someone says they regret something don't make assumptions on someones feelings. That does make him a hypocrite. Doing something physical when emotionally you're tied to someone else is still cheating. Did the love stop when he was with her? If he loves you, all he should want is you why would he even be with some other girl anyway? If you guys hung out everyday, why would you have to break up? Parental interference doesn't sound right so there's something you're not telling us. I don't know him and I don't know you, but you seriously need to reconsider his intentions and feelings. Some guys are wonderful until the real them comes out, he may be one of those types just make sure that he's the one before you go and let everything get fuzzy and cloud your judgment, good luck babe!

2007-02-27 11:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0 0

Girl the most important thing to do in a relationship like that is to never trust too much. Always guard your heart; and by saying that I don't mean hide things from him or don't be yourself, but you have to know that people make mistakes and only You can judge whether its worth looking over or taking serious. One thing to remember is that, if you keep God #1 in your life he can help you find true love. You said you've been hurt before because of the people in your family who left you, well one thing to remember is that God will never leave you nor forsake you; and he loves you more then you will ever know. If you seek after him by praying and maybe even going to a good church, I can guarantee you that he will lead you in the right direction helping you make the right decisions. Trust me. Jesus Is Lord.

2007-02-27 11:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetie 07 1 · 0 0

lots of times once guys cheat they re-find the feelings they once had for you. he see's how this other girl is nothing like you and realized how perfect you are for him. he was just trying something new.. maybe seeing if the parentals were right all along. but now that he knows you're the right person for him, he wants you back. you should take him back. don't ask about the other girl either, it'll probably be uncomfortalbe/awkward and he just won't wanna talk about it.

2007-02-27 11:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by vitadio 2 · 0 0

well you should make a promise or somtin' cause thats pretty seiuos if he made out with a girl or somthing you know wat i mean? But a other thought is that he might keep doing that if you get back together. MAYBE. Try to work it out! :-)

2007-02-27 11:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

he did it because he doesnt respect you.
he didnt tell you because he doesnt love you.

Do you really want to be with someone who makes you feel paranoid.
The best predictor of future behavior-- is past behavior.

2007-02-27 11:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by jay 2 · 0 0

well if you love him that much go to him,but you can't go back with your ex it's going to be painful because I had the same sitiuation it hurts though . just be good.

2007-02-27 11:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by mexican_girl_from_cali 1 · 0 0

maybe you should ask him if he messed around cuz the other person could be lying maybe she wants him for herself.

2007-02-27 11:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by india 2 · 0 0

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