I really need to know this answer before i break up with him................
2007-02-27 11:40:25 · 33 answers · asked by Shenayder 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are proud of something or someone you show it off.sound like he might have other fish or mermaids on the line.ask him!
2007-02-27 11:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by honeypot0214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like hes not worth it, no matter how good he makes you feel. I think he shouldnt be afraid to hid behind that you two are lovers, true lovers express togetherness wherever. Just explain to him you want more and if he cant connect outside of the sheets tell him so & he'll just have to deal. Do the right thing you were gonna do, break up with the guy hes def. not worth your trouble.
2007-02-27 11:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by Sam K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a relationship with someone who wanted to hide it from various people. I actually went with it, believing her reasoning. For the most part it wasn't hidden at all, it was very job-specific though. Kind of sad though when her job started completely taking over her life.
My advice would be to not go for it. If they can't acknowledge your presence, you've got a problem.
Just tell the guy he's extremely cold and that although you enjoy your time with him, you can't live like that.
If he's never really acknowledged you, he likely won't later.
2007-02-27 11:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun. first of all do you have feelings for him.....and does he have for you.....because if he's feelin you there should be no excuse on earth y he shouldnt let anyone know you two r dating. Second is he popular because it might bring down his reputation...BUT DONT GET ME WRONG....U should be more important.....he should stand up for whats right....and thats where you come in...Hun U GOTTA LET HIM KNO u dont come in second place......if u really like him and want to make it work out....talk to him let him kno how u feel about the situation.....I WISH U THE BEST!!!!!!
2007-02-27 12:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by Lil Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is hiding something from someone.
There is no reason and quite frankly, that would be a boring relaitonship.
You would never get out and do anything in public or anything for fear of someone seeing u together.
Thats just wrong.
He sounds ashamed or something.
I would call it off immediately and find someone who will take me out and show me off!!!!!
Good luck to u.
2007-02-27 11:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, that means there's a certain someone (girl) out there that he doesn't want them to know who you are. If you are someone's lover, girlfriend, wife......his friends and family should know about you and who you are.
He wants to keep you secret. And that is DEFINITELY not a good sign. Good luck girl.
2007-02-27 11:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by candy- capped 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!! If he doesn't want anyone to know you're together than that is just really bad and dishonest because why doesn't he want anyone to know...is he ashamed...is he cheating? Just break up with him! and move on fast!
2007-02-27 11:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him. Apparently he want you on the down low for a reason. If someone bought you a dozen of beautiful red roses would you put them in a box on the self so no one could see? Of course not. You want them in a beautiful vase sitting out so all could see how beautiful they are. If he really wanted to be with you he would not want to hide his love he would want it to stand out so that all could see how beautiful it is.
2007-02-27 11:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want anyone to know..then hes prob. cheating on you or something..so I say talk to him..or mabe also if he doesnt want to tell anyone, it could be because hes scared because someone might tell his parents and they dont want him to date and he really cares about you and wants to stay with you..you should talk to him, and if he doesnt give him a good answer then dump him..because you deserve someone way better then that.
2007-02-27 11:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let's try it this way, shall we?
What do you DO if your lover doesn't want to let anyone know YOU'RE together?
Now that it's grammatical and correctly spelled, what are you talking about?
2007-02-27 11:46:32 · answer #10 · answered by ekim2211 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go ahead and break up, you've done been insulted or used don't matter which one. I suggest a shower and confession.
2007-02-27 11:53:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋