i lkie her and want her but she wont stop talking about her ex
2007-02-27 11:36:56 · 18 answers · asked by james c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Right now you're being selfish.
She's not ready for a relationship. End of story. Be her friend but until she's ready to date, that's all you'll be.You NEED to let her take her time to get over her ex.
2007-02-27 11:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be the rebound guy. I wouldn't push a relationship with her until shes completely over the ex. Let her deal with her feelings first before moving into something. you may get hurt. Establish a friendship first, be there for her then see what happens. Good luck
2007-02-27 11:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by elena_398 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her talk. She has to work it out for herself. Being there for her is a good thing, but I don't get the sense you just want her as a friend. She is vulnerable and you have to tread lightly here. Bring her flowers over the weekend, just because.
As far as "taking you" is concerned, she has to feel good enough about herself to take such a step. That may be farther down the line.
2007-02-27 11:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but that is what come with being the rebound guy. You need to start the conversation. Ask her stuff about her. Make her know that you care because you want to know about her childhood, school, friends, oh, and keep the ex out of it!
2007-02-27 11:40:52 · answer #4 · answered by Cali Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that her ex wouldnt have gotten rid of her if he actually liked her. Just talk to her on the phone and tell her u want her. Untill she forgets about him. Or you creep her out and she goes to screw with her ex. But You should take the chance
2007-02-27 11:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by chris_hayes806 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my my my. Girls like talking about things that hurt them-- it's a way of coping. Time is the only thing that will heal her. try bringing up a different subject, or going somewhere that will keep her mind off of him. When i was going through that stage-- i realized quickly how tired everyone around me got when i KEPT talking about him, all the time. So, maybe slip into the conversation next time "if he makes you that unhappy-- why do you let him occupy your thoughts"
it's a rash, not brash way of letting her know you're tired of hearing about someone who is keeping you from HER.
2007-02-27 11:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept that she's not ready for a new relationship. She needs to work through her feelings and grieve for the lost relationship before she can open her heart again. Be there and be a friend, if you want. If you can't handle that, then move on.
2007-02-27 11:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is really hurt by her ex, you should show her how much you like her by bringing her flowers or taking her out to dinner. Also maybe you should explain to her your feelings for her. Then maybe she will stop thinking about her ex and go after you.
2007-02-27 11:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont want to get into a realtionship when someone still has feelings for her ex. Just be a good friend and listen and she will see that you care, so when she does move on she can say that you were there for her.
2007-02-27 11:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by Wphs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. If she is still hooked on her ex then it's best you don't get in the middle. All that will be waiting for you is a lot of pain.
2007-02-27 11:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by Caramella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋