This guy I liked still lives with the girl he was dating for 3 years, and even though he's tried to break up with her for about 5 months now, she won't take his seriously, and ends up pushing every one of his buttons to get her way. They fight constantly because she is beyond the point of being controling and there's even holes in the walls of their apartment from all their fights. He told me he wanted to move on and I could tell he was very interested in me.
Well he and I had been hanging out Saturday night, while she was out of town for the weekend, and we ended up kissing for awhile.
She found out, pushed all his buttons again, and now he tells me that even though she's not perfect she loves him and wants to work things out. And he had to listen to her cry all night long and he feels like such a horrible person.
I know he needs to grow some balls, that's a given, but I think his main reason for staying with her is because he feels guilty. Whatcha think?
2007-02-27 11:25:44 · 9 answers · asked by good luck 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, i'm not messing with him anymore trust me.
And she is COMPLETELY psycho. She has gotten my cell phone number and sent me about 50 text messages pretending to be him.
I don't want to be with him, but it would make me feel better if it was true he was staying with her because he felt guilty.
'Cause if they do have all the problems he expressed...it's only a matter of time before those problems resurface.
The only difference is I won't be there to try and comfort him anymore.
2007-02-27 11:36:51 · update #1
It sounds to me that he needs to get away from her before she drives him insane.
2007-02-27 11:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by Bethany H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 19:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by tubb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously doubt you are being told the whole story. Don't believe anything he tells you. Unless he moves out, or leaves her, there is nothing you should be doing about him. Hes probably just another jerk, looking out for number one, and believe me you are not it. So, unless you want a bunch of heart ache, leave him alone until his actions prove he means what he says.
2007-02-27 11:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by lucielu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away from him, he's not worth the issues. If he really wanted to leave her he would, he likes the attention. He's playing a game and if you stick around you will be the only one getting hurt. Good luck!
2007-02-27 11:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by Mark C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he feels he has a duty to help her through whatever is going on with that girl. He's gotta drop her. She sounds like a total psycho by the way you're describing her. But I'm guessing he's just afraid or feels like he has an obligation to set things right or he doesn't feel right about ditching someone like that.
2007-02-27 11:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anthony 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honestly dont get into this, stay away from him until he decides what he wants. And he knows what he wants, if he wants you he knows what to do and let it be his decision. Dont be another reason why they should break up give them time and be happy no matter what he chooses.
2007-02-27 11:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so he's not married to her and there's no kids and if he stays then its because he loves her , plain and simple. And if there are holes in their walls then why would you want a relationship with him. And you know first hand that he's not faithful
2007-02-27 11:35:27 · answer #7 · answered by Simply_Patricia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to leave her.....he would. Its not guilt......hes staying because he wants to. Period.
Sorry hun, but dont make excuses for him......hes where he wants to be.
Good luck to u.
2007-02-27 11:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to move on.
2007-02-27 11:30:56 · answer #9 · answered by sity.cent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋