Does anyone have any good advise on breaking up with someone? I have just broken up with my fiance we have been together 4 and a half years engaged for coming up 3 years and his decision he just doesn't know if he loves me as much anymore. And I am handing it very bad. I can't imagen him not being in my life. I have not yet moved out of our house he is not rushing me to leave he said to take my time but I am just holding on with hope that he will change his mind. I asked him if he was confused about his decision and first he shrugged his sholders and then said I don't think so. Then when i asked if there was any hope for us to fix it he shrugged again and said I don't know. So I asked him is there any hope for us now and he said not at the moment i don't think. I feel so confused I just want to make it work but you can't force someone to be with you. It hurts so much because I love him with all my heart.
2007-02-27 11:05:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awk i really feel for you. but you have to move out of that house! when you move out he might see that he misses you and regret his decision. but would you really want to be married to someone that says they are unsure if they love you or not. you deserve to have someone that adores you and loves you with all their heart like you do them. a marriage were one person doesnt love the other as much ends in divorce and that would be worse. move on and be strong and respect yourself. move out and keep living your life. i know thats easy for me to say but you have to try. and if he regrets his decision after that think about what you want to do. but think about this...marriage is so important...you dont want to end in a divorce. it should be one strike and your out! and if he still says no after it all just think to yourself theres nothing i can do about it about so this must b the way it is supposed to be...he is not "the one".
2007-02-28 08:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel really bad for you. Did he ever give you a reason - other than he doesn't think he loves you as much anymore? I think after 4 years and an engagement he certainly owes you MORE than that! Honey, I am worried he has met another girl because he is too vague and too uninterested in trying to make it work with you. You are doing all the right things to try to get back on track, but he avoids it. There may not be much you can do at this point but move out and let it be. It would not be worth trying to stay with someone who doesn't want to be together anymore. It will be a hard thing for you to do, but you will be okay. I hope you have a friend or family member who can support you. Good luck to you.
2007-02-27 11:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out as soon as possible and give both you and him some time to think and if its meant to be it will happen and if not i guess you need to move on its a hard situation when one still has feelings and the other doesn't
2007-02-27 11:10:58 · answer #3 · answered by wilo_chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋