We fight constantly and some days, he's nice, and others, hes like,"Quit IM'ing me, you are sooo annoying!" One time I IM'ed him, he was like,"I'm not going 2 lie, I think I still like you." Then, 2 days later, he says,"You are sooo weird and really annoying f you!" But I really wish we can still be friends even though sometimes, he refuses to try, so should I IM him, or would that make things worse like last time?
btw, he says he's moved on, but he changes his mind every day!!! And he says he likes 2 other girls, but I think hes just jelous cuz I was going out with this other guy after him.
2007-02-27 10:44:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i still do.. it took me a year to completely stop liking her and we argued for the whole year it seemed like.. friends on and off.. but now 3 years later shes my best friend in the world... you're choice.. i say go for it.
2007-02-27 10:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by Monkey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is just hurt that u broke up. He obviously doesn't know how to react or how to express himself so he made up the other girls to keep from feeling bad about u dating someone else. I think that u shouldn't send him another message (atleast not for a couple weeks) so he can get past it. Everytime u send him a message it probably just brings back the bad feelings and he probably is too overwhelmed to be your friends (it happens). Maybe down the line he will send u a message or u will decide that u don't want to send him anymore. Either way u should cool off for a while and just enjoy your lives apart.
2007-02-27 10:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you love your lady buddy lots, then why are you speaking on your ex? i ought to comprehend in case you 2 had babies collectively yet no longer something. you should tell your ex which you do no longer experience top chatting together with her anymore on account which you have quite a few admire on your contemporary lady buddy. Be a guy approximately it. whilst my ex left, I made particular that he had no touch with me in any admire till I could do organisation with him. i might enable his contemporary lover comprehend approximately it by my attorneys or realtors. No small communicate or something. i do no longer play around.
2016-11-26 19:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you should. Say funny stuff like im killing all the zombies in the basement. Yup i said that to my ex and that what got him talking.but he was like "whats wrong with you?lol"
2007-02-27 10:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by Lorrane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him contact you in IM first than you will at least know he wants to talk to you
2007-02-27 10:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by wilo_chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I think he needs to grow up. Talk to him in some years.
2007-02-27 10:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by Livin it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont talk to him at all. Let him initiate the talk, not you. Are you that desperate? He might think you're chasing him.
2007-02-27 10:47:42 · answer #7 · answered by rosemarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about you??? Why does it all revolve around him and what he wants or thinks?
Move on and don't im him.... Your worth more than this!
2007-02-27 10:48:37 · answer #8 · answered by Kai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from what it looks like he likes you but he does not like to admit it
so yeah you can talk to him but i would suggest not to go back out with him again
2007-02-27 10:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by Patrick Teh III 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone, give him space, he like that you bug him, so stop giving him the attention and flip the script on him, play his *** hot and cold
2007-02-27 10:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋