so i just broke up with my b/f of two years, and now my friends are telling me he cheated on me twice with two girls i wouldnt even think he would...well he had a lot of the signs of a cheater but the two girls are really nasty and im ganna say it ugly...should i belive my friends are should i belive him....i remember those two nights and he was drunk so i donno...
i belive them but then i dont
2007-02-27 10:44:29 · 16 answers · asked by CRAZY 8 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they have said somthing before, but i didnt belive them...and i am in the process of getting over him, things take time woman.
2007-02-27 10:48:48 · update #1
and they all hated him cuz he was a ***
2007-02-27 10:49:52 · update #2
Thats all in the past cause you broke up with him so dont even worry about it...unless ur thinking about getting back together with him.
2007-02-27 10:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be as wary of your friends' decision to tell you this NOW THAT YOU BROKE UP as you are of your ex's ability to cheat on you back then. Remember to question EVERYONE'S motivation: what's your friends' motivation in telling you this? To get you angry? To make you feel worse than I'm sure you already do? To simply inform you and solidfy your good decision to let him go? Remember, girls are catty and perhaps ---especially if they're single-- one or more of them would love nothing more than for you to feel stupid and increase the likelihood of hooking up with your ex in the future. And the old addage about farting applies here too - whoever smelt it, delt it. If they bring it up they may have done a thing or two with them, or at least have fantasized about it. Guilt does amazing things to people.
Please don't take this wrong and become overly paranoid - if you know your friends well enough, then you'll know when to be cautious and when to question their loyalty.
Regardless, don't beat yourself up for the stupid and wrong doings of others. Good riddance to the boob who couldn't keep you happy and welcome to all the other lucky men to come!
2007-02-27 10:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by sjrae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares. He's your EX boyfriend. Move on. Don't ruin friendships over it. Let's put it this way...if he looks like a cheater, acts like a cheater, smells like a cheater then he probably is a cheater. And if he is in fact a cheater then you don't want him back in your life regardless of who he's been sleeping with. Right?
2007-02-27 10:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by Dan M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so you said that you wouldn't think he would... now to the end you said two night ago he was drunk ... yeah see he won't know but you should confront two girls and if they said yes it true the that true...
Me I remember I was drunk I was up in the room with one woman but nothing happen and my girlfriend walk in and saw me and went to my car and I went out and told her nothing happen and I am so sorry and she didn't believe me and then I woke up one morning and I told her that I was so sorry and Nothing happy.... and then I told her I quit drinking so I haven't been drinking since almost 10 years now.. now that I married her for 10 years and I make sure that I am not drinking anymore. and it sure not funny about that.
So I think you should confront 2 girls if they said it true and have them meet at your bf house and tell him ahve you had sex with those 2 girls??? and if he speech lessa nd felt really bad and shocked then you know that he knew and knew it was wrong... why didn't he back off.
you know wha tI mean???
2007-02-27 10:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter who you believe, if there is any doubt in your mind then he is already not worth it. No man who is worth it will ever make you doubt him. Move on, don't waste your time. Better now then spend the next 2 years trying to figure this out.
2007-02-27 10:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by Gist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, would your friends have any reason to lie about it? Were you ignoring them to spend time with your boyfriend? Did they not like him before the cheating accusations came around?
Think about those before you decide.
2007-02-27 10:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by neonsturm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
friends will always be there but b/f's are just a thing that flys and comes like a butterfly. BELIVE YOUR FRIENDS, cause they'd think you don't trust them.
2007-02-27 10:48:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're broken up ~ who cares? Seriously, it doesn't matter. Why did these friends of yours not tell you when you were dating him? And guys don't always cheat with the pretty girls, ya know.....it' about power and sex. If he did, good riddance....if he didn't, it doesn't matter.
2007-02-27 10:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would the friends lie?Some guys will sleep with anyone who is willing.Maybe he didnt.Where do those girls get their information & why didnt they tell you before?
2007-02-27 10:48:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
good Line. i'd use it if i ought to flee with it. tell him U have continuously concept it may well be extra effective for an experienced guy to do you the 1st time and notice if his tale ameliorations.
2016-10-16 22:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by porix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋