There is this girl i know, and for the past few month we have been getting closer and closer, talking everyday, talking on the phone everyday, sending text messages everyday. Every morning and every night we call or text each other good morning and good night, ive never felt this way about a girl before, and she has also told me that she has never thought that much about a guy before. So far we have not told her i lover her, we are not even in a relationship, but i know there is something more then friends between us. Well recently out of the blue i recieved i text message form here saying that she is not the one for me, that there is a girls out there form me but its not here. Can anyone tell me what is goin on or what i should do? thank you
2007-02-27 10:44:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her face to face - it may be her parents trying to split you up.
2007-02-27 10:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a good ol' fashioned conversation is needed. Share with her how you've been feeling about her and ask her how she's been feeling about you. Ask her what makes her think she isn't the girl for you. Some people feel like they aren't "good enough" to be with someone they really like.
The scary thing about conversation of course is that you have to be able to accept what they say, and respect her. If this isn't the right time for you to be in a romantic relationship with her then just try to enjoy the companionship that you already have with her.
hope this helps, good luck
2007-02-27 10:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by John 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she tells you that then take it to heart because she's telling you for a reason. Maybe she feels like you two are getting pretty close and she is not ready for that kind of relationship. Or maybe she knows if it goes any further she won't do right by you. So take it as a preliminary warning and just consider her a good friend.
2007-02-27 10:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by missmozee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is scared of commitment. I mean one minute she is into you the next she isnt...I think she still may be into you but dont want to let you know this because she want whats best for you.. and she doesnt believe its her. She may even think you are tooo good for her. Some women are like that, actually some guys are like that too... But I say you wont know until you try it out. Good Luck!
2007-02-27 10:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by collins2004_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't step up, so someone else did. She is trying to cut off communication with you cause she already hooked up with someone. If you don't believe me, ask her out somewhere and watch how fast she turns you down.
2007-02-27 10:49:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude if you really like her meet her face to face and talk to her about it tell her how u feel and that you want to be more than friends.
2007-02-27 10:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by Tessa N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am dam sure that if you call her she will be running towards you
trust me brother
i have that kind of experience
dont be shy
and dont get nervous
just go to her and give her a call
she will accept you
and dont be late
other wise you may loose her
cause there are not lack of other guys
2007-02-27 10:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the only way to know what s going on is to talk to her
2007-02-27 10:52:28 · answer #8 · answered by HULK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's married!
2007-02-27 10:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by britchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋