I am going through a nasty divorce and he want to give me nothing we were married for 15 yrs and i just want the kids and everyone is telling me to take all of it i am not that kind of person.. I would like to know if it is to early to date i filed about 6 months ago and hes out of the house .. I met this wonderful guy but he lives 100miles away should i go for it or just heal before jumping into another relationship i'm kinda lost and lonley please help.. Thanks alot just need a little help on this one..I want the truth about all of it should i take him to the bank ? Should i get into a relationship ??
2007-02-27 10:22:10 · 1 answers · asked by JINE GIRL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One at a time.
Please deal with the divorce first, make sure that the children are financially sound and supported.
Next, you are very vulnerable at this stage "I'm kinda lost and lonely". Best to get to know the person better, give the relationship, yourself and your family time to mature. If you start a relationship now while in the process of a divorce, how will the children take that? It will simply complicate an already complicated situation.
Please be strong, for yourself and for your children.
You deserve to be happy and you will be happy; but for now, stand up for your childrens' rights. It will come to an end, but in the meantime, please hang in there and take it a day at a time.
Peace be to you and your family.
2007-02-27 10:27:18 · answer #1 · answered by tranquil 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋