I met this girl on orkut, she's my best frnds friend, as well as his neighbor. We chat regularly over phone, message each other. And frankly i am in love with her, although i never met her before, in fact she used to live in same city back home.... Now my problem is I am in Chicago, while she's in California, and its difficult for both of use to meet given our tight schedules. Now, is there any way, i can find out if she reciprocates my feelings.. i mean whether she loves me or not? I did talk with a few frnd of mine, and all they said was try giving her indirect hints... but i m totally clueless... Can u guys help me out?
2007-02-27 10:20:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Truthfully, I doubt you really /really/ love her. You might think you do, but when you do meet her, your feelings will probably change. Face it; you've never met her.
I also believe that this girl really likes you, but I don't think she /loves/ you. Girls take longer to fall in love than guys. Give her more time, and then try as hard as you can to meet her in person. If she seems eager and happy to see you or even hugs you, ask her out (if you already haven't). Check her reaction; is she happy, hyped, elated? Or maybe she's shocked and uncomfortable.
Gradually, over time, you will see if she loves you or not. Love, as a whole, is a long, trying, wonderful experience.
I wish you the best of luck with this girl. =)
2007-02-27 10:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by jude 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi! t's common today because of cell phones and internet for people to have long distance relationships, because you can constantly keep in touch but not see the person in real life! My advice is surprise her! make some time go to Cali, and when you get there call her and tell her your there! or just tell her you'd like to see her and how you can work it out!
Good luck!
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2007-02-27 10:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you could ask her how she feels about you 'as a friend' maybe she will tell more than that? dunno. direct seems to be the best way. doesnt mean she will automatically reciprocate. long distant love is difficult in that if she would say she loves you too...then you will go crazy being without them. good luck peace
2007-02-27 10:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until the time is right. She'll realize it. And when you feel the time is right tell her. But not right now. I don't feel like a woman would be ready to handle that as of RIGHT now. But eventually, or when you think she has had enough time to fall in love. Give it a shot. If it doesn't work out. She wasn't meant to be that way as of that time. Who knows!?!
2007-02-27 10:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by The Random Blonde 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Be honest with her and tell her how she feels about the both of yall going all the way and making love and see how she feels about it and if she says yes than go for it!
2016-03-29 03:36:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your getting my advice and I'm a girl! You should talk to some of her friends and have them find out info in a secret way.If you really like her and you find out that she likes you, you should try to ask her out.
2007-02-27 10:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by Fumbelina 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to a farm and ask a sheep. Works every time.
2007-02-27 10:24:47 · answer #7 · answered by j;eaojtoig;45jho;54ihu;45hujt54 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion, the best way is the direct way.
2007-02-27 10:24:06 · answer #8 · answered by bobbino11 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say be honest. Tell her directly how you feel and ask her directly how she feels.
2007-02-27 10:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by Get a life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her jealous duh but first find out if she has a boyfriend or a crush don't sound too desperate . She's sure to crack soon
2007-02-27 10:27:21 · answer #10 · answered by Goddess of Nature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋