Do you beleive its with someone you really love, wait until marriage, or just when you think its the right time to do it? And what age is a good age? (for guys and girls)
2007-02-27 09:46:15 · 48 answers · asked by Leo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is a very difficult question to answer. When I was a young girl, virginity was very very important and men just didn't marry women who were not virgins unless they deflowered them themselves. I believe that to be realistic in the year 2007, if you really fall in love with someone, you are over 18 and there is a committment, and you are engaged, maybe it would be alright but not before that. Now remember I am old fashioned, but I am trying to be more open minded. Alot of teenage girls give their virginity so easily and I don't think it is very healthy and a good idea. Girls perceive sex with a guy as being loved, but a young guy most of the time doesn't perceive sex with love until he is more mature. So that is what I am trying to tell you. Girls should not be pressured into sex in their teen years. Wait until you are more mature, and you are in an adult relationship and are in love. For most young men, I don't know. But I think that young men normally have sex in their later teens...They should be more mature also. I don't believe that young teenage guys should have sex too young either because they are not mature enough, and there is the danger of teenage pregnancy, but teenage guys have a very high sex drive and their hormones are raging so it is difficult. So in closing, I feel maturity is the key and teenagers should not indulge in sexual activity.
2007-02-27 10:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is a good age to lose your virginity. However, I don't recommend anyone under the age of 18 have sex. It is a very complicated thing and until someone can deal with the repercussions and are mature enough they shouldn't have sex. There is no perfect time. It would be nice to wait until your married. However, there are many reasons why that just isn't realistic anymore. Many people are opting not to get married.
Marriage doesn't mean that you are going to be with your spouse forever, considering the fact the divorce rate is over 50%.
It should be with someone you really love. Because sex is not only a pleasurable thing but an emotional as well, and giving yourself to someone like that should be something special to the both of you.
2007-02-27 09:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by Leila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should loose it when you feel the time is right. Make sure you are not doing for the wrong reasons. Do what ever feels right to you. Secondly, make sure you know your partner because every-body's sleeping around with everybody else! There are to many STDs out there not to know your partner. I don't feel like you need to love the person but you do need to know, trust and like the person. Finally, I don't think anybody under the age of 16 should be having sex. I'm only 23 but if and when I get older, get married, and have a daughter I'll tell her no sex before thirty! lol
2007-02-27 10:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by Pseudonym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best time is different for everyone. If you're the type of person who is willing to take a risk and hope that your first will the person that you're going to spend the rest of your life with, then you'll probably lose it when you think you've found that person. Others wait until marriage since marriage is suppose to solidify your bond.
Me, personally, I'm waiting until after marriage.
2007-02-27 09:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by Friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a good age..that is hard to say....I would not recommend to lose your virginity very early (as a young teenager). Teenagers are so hormon driven...
I would wait until it all feels right. The person you are with, the love you feel for each other, the right place...I am sure you will know.
2007-02-27 09:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a personal decision i mean if u chose to wait until marriage or until the time is right that is totally up 2 u.
2007-02-27 10:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Princesa_Mexicana*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For most girls its just with what ever hot guy they are attracted to at any age. But for me I would like to wait until I get married, because I would know that he really loved me and wouldnt just want me for sex. I would like to get married when I'm 18, in a year, so thats a good age for me.
2007-02-27 09:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage!
2007-02-27 09:50:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant just pick an age and by that time be randomly ready for sex. You need to wait till your n love and with someone you know and trust. weather your 15 or 25 it doesnt matter
2007-02-27 09:51:56 · answer #9 · answered by supergirl g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the perfect time to lose your virginity is when you find the one and only person that you want to live with for the rest of your life, it gives a lot of more meaning to a relationship and I think it would strengthen the relationship more. and age to me has nothing to do with it.
2007-02-27 09:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋