ok so i m serious my cousin has a girlfriend. i tried to get along with her so many times but i just can't.se is so mean and rude to me she also lies to me she doesn't like me but i don't want feel my cousin bad he wants us to get friends but i can't get along with her what schold i do!!
2007-02-27 09:40:01 · 8 answers · asked by SweetKareena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
explain to him honestly that u cannot get along with her ..... its not rude or a bad thing .... u just do not like each other .... and i suggest u keep away before u cause a problem between the 2 of them .... it is better to tell him u cannot make friends with her than to start a fire between them without even meaning it
2007-02-27 10:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by enasshalaan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to yor cousin one-on-one and let him(or her) know how you feel and that you have problems with her. He may be with her just for some fun and it's not a long term relationship (or she would have tried harder to be nice to you). Just stay away from them and if anything just ignore her, like she doesn't exist. You'll feel much better and she will be the one who will be pissed you are ignoring her and not falling for her rude attitude (you know, talk to the hand, the face don't want none).
2007-02-27 17:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ac 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has you cousin witnessed the way she treats you? Just say that you feel uncomfortable and give specific examples of what she has said. Don't yell or call her names. Talk to him when she isn't around. Be mature and let him know that you will limit your time with her. Hopefully he will realize that she isn't a good girlfriend and leave her soon. Is he a nice guy?
2007-02-27 17:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by ciao_gina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i think you should talk to your cousin about it. If you already have and nothings changed, than you should be the bigger person and talk to his girlfriend. Tell her that even though you two dont really get along, you both are in your cousins life, so she should respect you for that.
2007-02-27 17:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by Rebecca R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your cousin.. if you made the effort to be friends then thats all you can do.. if it didnt work out well what can you do.. some people do not get along and theres nothing wrong with that..hope that helps.. for more conversation on lots of stuff visit my blog we talk about all kinds of things like this and more..http://ramblingjenn.wordpress.com
2007-02-27 17:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by Pure Genius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should continue to be yourself, if she has the problem than she needs to fix it, it may help also to sit down and have a heart to heart with your cousin and let him know where you are coming from. Where i am from blood is thicker than water, so maybe he can kind of talk to her without causing problems for them or the two of you, hope it helps.
2007-02-27 18:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by CINDY C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being around them. Then when he ask what's the deal with you not wanting to hang with him and his girl. That's when you tell him about her attitude towards you. I think if you give him some alone time with her enough, he will get the picture, and dump her.
2007-02-27 18:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smack that ho!
2007-02-27 17:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by Gasman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋