what should i do me and my boyfriend broke up some months ago because he cheated anyway i'm trying to move on and i started messing with someone else he really likes me but i toold him that i still have feelings for my ex .
2007-02-27 09:39:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You were being honest with him. You may not quite be ready to move on completely and letting someone know that up front is, in my opinion, admirable. It may take you some time to get over your ex and you are going to bring some of that into the new relationship as well, so I don't think it was that bad of a thing to do. This way if it doesn't work out then he will not be trying to figure out what he did wrong or what he could have changed. Just assure him that you are not getting back with him but that you need to deal with these feelings as well and you hope that he will understand that and that you two can see what happens.
2007-02-27 09:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by altariela 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ouch!
How will you feel if someone you like and whom you "mess around with" tell you that he still has feelings for his ex?
Sweetie, I recommend that you do not get sexually intimate with someone else until you are over your ex.
And as for you breaking up with the ex, I say: bravo! You love yourself enough to know that you deserve better.
It is good that you gave this incident a thought. Now please go to the current man and apologize.
Life may have some difficult lessons to learn; but once you learn the lessons, the stronger you become.
2007-02-27 09:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by tranquil 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch!
1. NEVER EVER bring up the EX
then you guys are fine and if you still have feelings for him why don't you ask him back out see how things work out...
or you can wait a little while till you get over him cheating on you then you can chosse your decision
2007-02-27 09:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by Saber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh. yeah that could be a problem. if your ex cheated on you. why would you want him back. he's a dooshbag. if he loved you do you think he woulda cheated on you? i think not. take back the statement. About you having feelings for your ex i mean. tell him you weren't in the roght state of mind when you were telling him this.
good luck
2007-02-27 09:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And your problem is........? if you're just messing around with this new guy, does it really matter if you still have feelings for your ex? If you guys end up really liking each other....the way you feel for him should outweigh the way you feel about the old guy. Have fun!
2007-02-27 09:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by kicking his *** to the curb, of course you did the right thing, and being honest with you new man is great. You should tell the new guy to try and make it to be a good time with you so it will help you forget about your ex!
2007-02-27 09:43:52 · answer #6 · answered by Aime'e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only try to go back to your ex if you are positive he wants you back and if you don't mind the possibility that he may cheat on you again.
2007-02-27 09:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by Telemann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short but sweet move on with your life honey.
2007-02-27 09:43:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you trying to say?
2007-02-27 09:42:10 · answer #9 · answered by karli r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be like me!! cuz it ends BAD!!!! just forget bout him!!
2007-02-27 09:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by ♥MoNiCa LoVeS YoU♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋