ok. i have a few questions. do girls realy like stuff like poems. will i look stupid if i ask her out with a note. what do i say. do girls care if a guy is nervous. do girls like it when you say things that are cheesy.
2007-02-27 09:30:42 · 13 answers · asked by nobody 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks everybody.
2007-02-27 09:56:55 · update #1
Ask your parents ... not total strangers! Now go do your homework.
2007-02-27 09:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by divinity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The headline is deceiving (which IS a bad thing)! It gives the impression you're trying to hook up with girls online.
Anyway, most girls appreciate poems. But unless she's a longtime and close friend, I wouldn't risk a poem when trying to get a girl. It can be kinda creepy, or may not be fully appreciated. Notes aren't always the best way to get us... we girls like more of a personal and romantic style.
If you don't talk to her on a regular basis, act like you are a really outgoing person. I made up this idea, and haven't tried it myself(being a girl), but it's something that would appeal to me. She'll usually be hanging with a group of her friends, which can seem intimidating. Shake off any self-doubt and say to the group, in a goofy/confident/cheesy way, "Ladies, may I please take [name here] away for a few moments to talk to her?" Take her aside and just talk to her. Make sure you compliment her at one point. If she seems really interested and engaged in the conversation, give her your number or suggest a date. If not, keep on showing up (pretty soon her girls will get you're just there to talk to the one girl and you won't have to announce yourself) and talking with her until things are more comfortable. Try to convince yourself "There's no reason why I should be nervous!" I think cheesy things can become the most memorable and romantic... I'd love it if a guy used a pickup line on me! I'm into humor, so to say.
2007-02-27 17:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by tres_maqnifique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey lol, dont worry about it. girls understand that guys get nervous, cuz we get nervous too. chances are, when you walk up to her to ask her out, she'll already know what's up and will have an answer for you bango. that is, if you already have a close friendship with her. if you say something dumb or cheesy, girls wont think bad about you. seriously. just do it. in person. not through a note or whatever
2007-02-27 17:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by karli r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poems are ok... If they arent retarted... anything with meaning is nice. Yes you will look like a total doosh. Ask her out in person or as a scavenger hunt. Never!, Text, email, note, letter, anything not in person or clever. Its just fake and cheesy... get balls. No it can be cute. No, I hate to break it to you but unless it is cute it is just kind of annoying. Sorry... ask someone first...
2007-02-27 17:36:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I happen to be 14 and yes girls love that mushy crap it makes them feel really special girls usually dont notice when a guy is nervous because most of the time they are to well in the note just talk about how beautiful and sweet they are and belive me I love that cheesy stuff........ lol
2007-02-27 17:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by Ninja3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that i like peoms theu are really romantic. Don't ask her out with a note that just is note the right way. I know that if a guy is nervous i would care that he was. It deepens on the frase.When you ask her out pull her aside and talk to her that way so you can have a one on one talk with her.
2007-02-27 17:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by Kara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i think it's very cute. But if it was girl giving a note they'd probably laugh. P.S. I'm a shy person so I would know some things.
2007-02-27 17:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not like if a guy asked me out with a note. that means even if they say no, it would just be on a piece of paper. It would be better if you asked a girl out personaly.
2007-02-27 17:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by C.C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any way you ask a girl out will be fine. no girls don't care if you're nervous because you have the NERVE to ask her out. if u like her and don't do anything about it...she may not like that.
good luck.
2007-02-27 17:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they might think its cute that they make you nervous...
i would but the whole poem thing NO!
and YES to the asking out by poem.
2007-02-27 17:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by holly babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't B cheesy. B u'r self. & yes girls like poems, but don't give her on every time u c her. & NEVER tell her taht she is SEXY u tell her that she is beautiful or hott but NEVER tell her taht she is SEXY... it is kind of weaird but it kind of makes them feel like there nothing 2 u.
2007-02-27 17:36:49 · answer #11 · answered by maryy206 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋