what do I do when my mind goes blank when I'm nervous up to her...
2007-02-27 09:27:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try asking her about her day? Honestly, your nervousness is based on a fear of rejection. The secret is to ask yourself the same thing she asks of you. What can you offer that no one else does? Most guys will be nervous, you have to be yourself, and treat her like you would anyone else. Women don't want a guy making a fool of himself, they want you to be sincere without being clingy.
Basically just go up to her and talk, without any lame lines you got off a bathroom wall, fancy moves you saw in a movie, or cheap knockoffs of an 80s love song.
2007-02-27 09:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by elleron2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just breathe and keep talking to her. It will be fine. If she judges you for being nervous she has a problem.
2007-02-27 17:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
write down something that you want to talk to her about, look at yourself in the mirror or ask some friends over so they can help u practice asking the girls you like.
2007-02-27 17:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by GuitarChik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus act normal be ur self if she doesnt seem 2 care shes not right 4 u if she really likes u see wouldnt care if u screw up or sat somthin stupid
2007-02-27 17:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by zac efron lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to not think about it ! I fu have trouble talking to her in person then E-mail her or write her letters.
2007-02-27 17:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK i am a girl say something sweet and be charming. us girls do not like nasty dirty boys eeeeewwwwwwwwwww that is just nasty if some girls do. but most of us don't. well anywayz just stay calm and be sweet.
2007-02-27 17:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_sammie_1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seriously..try masturbating before u talk to her..its when a man is most honest and u really wont be nervous...if that doesnt work try getting tipsy
im dead serious about the jacking off thing it works
2007-02-27 17:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by stevo 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
do what girls do and write a letter and have somebody pass it to her or you give it to her
2007-02-28 00:01:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"alright well im kind of tired at the moment, but ill talk to you later"
2007-02-27 17:29:39 · answer #9 · answered by crymsyneyez 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just stay calm and just say something
2007-02-27 17:29:24 · answer #10 · answered by Arielle D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋