My favorite cousin's daughter is having a birthday this weekend, I cannot attend because I live 6 hrs away and it's on a Sunday (my cousin knows this) so she did not send me an invite. However I know it's her birthday she has been talking to me about the party but I think she simply opted to save herself a stamp and an invite since she knows I can't come, now should I mail a card with a gift card for her anyways or not since I wasn't technically invited. I am 26 my cousin is 28 and were pretty close.
2007-02-27 09:20:11 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
yes! send it! as a good cousin you should know your relatives birthday dates so it would be natural for you to send a card or a gift even if she wasnt having a party! she knows you cant come and yet I am sure she would be happy to know you are thinking about her even if you can be with her!
2007-02-27 09:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by uber_kiwi95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course! Send her a gift card!!
2007-02-27 09:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's awfully risky to send a gift card through the mail! Who knows where it would end up! If it didn't get to her, you'd be out cash and she'd be out a present. I would just wait til I saw her again.
2007-02-27 09:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by startwinkle05 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mail the card and, if you wish, include a small gift. It is not about your cousin, but her daughter.
Good manners.
2007-02-27 09:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by Pacifica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she's family send her the card
2007-02-27 09:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by jibs91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you guys are close and I'm sure the little girl would love it. :)
2007-02-27 10:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by Trouble's Mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A gift would be truly appreciated I think :)
2007-02-27 09:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋