Im a 12th grader and in one of my classes theres this person(whos not real good looking) who im in love with.Her personality is very bright and her presence makes me get butterflys. Theres something about her that made me feel real love for the first time. Im very desperate because every time i want to talk to her I cant. I need help, if you could tell me a love spell or give me advice then please tell me.
2007-02-27 09:18:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Isn't love weird? Be funny, but don't try to be funny. They like that. Doesn't it suck? I'm going through the same this myself.
2007-02-27 09:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by sklinckyy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this girl then forget about the feelings you have for her with out even really knowing her and just try to start a conversation with her sometime.
I know how the butterfly thing can make you feel. If you can't bring yourself to actually talk to her maybe slip a note into her locker and put from your secret admirer. Maybe then at that point keep those going and on one of the letters put a place and time for her to meet you. That way you can have some fun with your feelings for her on paper. But for gosh sakes do not tell the girl your in love with her because that will scare her away. Which is the last thing I'm sure you want to happen.
If I had a guy do that to me when I was in high school I would've loved it.
Good Luck
2007-02-27 09:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by blondie21_97504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I know what u mean. Im 20 years old and when I was a junior in high school I was in love with this senior. Everytime Id see him Id get butterflys and I felt soo in love with him! Well I do think u should speak up!!! Un fortunately for me I am extrememly SHY but I ruined my chances becasue this guy liked me too but instrad of showing it, I avoided him everytime! I could have had something with him but I blew it for not speaking up! Just talk to her and be her friend first! Dont rush into anything! Then tell her about ur feelings fr her. FI she doesnt feel the same way, then forget it but continue to be her friend, u never know when she'll have a change of heart, But also she may never change her mind. ITs tricky but ur still very young! Dont worry about it. But good luck and i hope my advice helps! :)
2007-02-27 09:24:10 · answer #3 · answered by deanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are categories of affection. All varieties are real and particular. i think of what you're rather asking is that if it rather is a hazard for youngster like to be completely and deeply committed adequate to final an entire life? The ordinary answer to that's no. nevertheless nevertheless, youngster love is real. it rather is particular. It feels marvelous mutually because it lasts. take excitement in it mutually as you have it. could desire to that youngster love become mature love given adequate time and private enhance? confident, of direction.
2016-09-29 23:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by zeitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just trydating her if u don't like her then, then dump her. trust me i'm in the same grade and my friend had the same problem i gave the same advice, he tryed it, and now him and the chick have been dating sence 7th grade so dude just give it a shot and plus dude, u shouldn't care watyour friends think. I'm dadting a girl in another state but the state is right nextto mine (georgia and tennessee) and my friend don't want me to date her cuz i can't see hereveryday at school. and plus if ur friends just care about the LOOKS of a girl, then they are NEVER going to findtrue love. so good luck and if u don't mind let me know how it works out.
2007-02-27 09:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by delta3835 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love comes with no warning. Unless you tell her how u feel, you never know, and if her presense makes you get butterflys think about if u tell her and she likes u back, (some girls hide ther feelings becuz there scared to be rejected) You never know unless u try.
2007-02-27 09:32:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first of all WHO CARES IF SHE IS NOT ATTRACTIVE if you like her thats good enough, and the other get some guts ask her something from class and from there work you way into a date.
2007-02-27 09:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by el_mex_vato 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL IS U POPULAR? SECOND IS SHE POPULAR? I KNOW IF U WAS YO FRIENDS IS GOING TO BE TALKING ABOUT HER BUT IF U LOVE HER THEN WHY DONT U JUST HANG OUT WIT HER AND GET TO KNOW HER...FOR GET WHAT YOUR FRIENDS SAY IF U LOVE HER THEN GO AFTER HER
2007-02-27 09:25:29 · answer #8 · answered by Shanice L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why in the world did you post that she isn't good looking?
Obviously you are attracted to her. Sounds like you are shallow and afraid your friends will think she is unattractive. Grow a backbone.
2007-02-27 09:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋