I just wanted to know everyone's opinion.
2007-02-27 09:13:09 · 20 answers · asked by gilmoregirlfanatic_15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on what you mean by "Move"
Asking for 1st date. Guy's job. Always.
Ladies, if you put your feelings on the line, it gives us guys the opportunity to take advantage of you.
It's ok for the lady to make the 1st move of getting the guys attention. A flirty "Hello" or starting a conversation. But make us do the hard work. Of course, some of us are too stupid to tell if a girl is being flirty with us or is naturally that way. Takes time to get to know her well enough. Or we're so afraid of rejection that we have to screw up enough courage to ask you out.
And he're the dilema for us. If we don't strike quick enough, our chance is over. You ladies think that if we really liked you nothing would stop us, or that we're not men if we can't face our fears...
Let me tell you, the more we like you, the more we respect you, the harder it is to face the rejection.
If we don't care about you, we don't care if you say no. We'll just move on to the next pretty girl.
So, you think he's cute? Want him to ask you out? Give him a couple of second chances. Don't cross him off your list 'cause he didn't pounce on you...
A nice guy takes his time. A nice guy puts a lot of thought into who he wants to trust with his heart. If you are willing to wait for a nice guy, you'll have someone you can love and will love you back.
Good luck.
A~
2007-02-27 09:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think men should have the courtesy to make the move. However, if there IS a girl who honestly feels like she would rather take the initiative, I don't see why that wouldn't be permissive. In fact, I'll admit that I do appreciate at least a bit of an effort on the girl's behalf, because that is what gives me the confirmation that she's interested in me. Then I take it from there and make the move.
2007-02-27 17:17:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't really matter. We live in an age when a girl can and should be free to express her feelings just like guys. Any guy who badly of a girl that does make the move is very very old-fashioned for our age.
2007-02-27 17:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by Princess of Egypt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I just met a guy that I really like. He made the move to kiss me on the first date. When he tried to go further I said no because i wasn't ready. Then we had made plans for the next day to hang out. But, he got shy and never called me. And I didn't want to seem forward so I didn't call him. Now all his friends are like he wanted you to call he waited all night. So, I regret not going for it. And I don't know if I'll ever see him again. He is in Iraq. And I really liked him. SO GO FOR IT!!!!! you might regret not acting on your feelings.
2007-02-27 17:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it can work both ways. You might first want to purchase two tickets to a concert or event. Then call him and tell him that you have an extra ticket and that it would be your pleasure to have him accompany you. The next move, however, should be his, in my opinion. Will be interesting to see what other responses you get on this subject.
2007-02-27 17:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by Jo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it matters, but if the girl wants something to happen soon, she better make the move. I decided to, because the guy would've never. It also depends on what type of person they are,
2007-02-27 17:25:13 · answer #6 · answered by Fob5236 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt really make a difference.i dont understand why girls argue that guys and girls are equal then the girl says its the boys job to do this,its the boys job to do that-doesnt sound like equality to me.thats why when i am on a date with my boyfriend i pay my half and he pays his,i make the move sometimes and sometimes he does,i like everything to be split down the middle because in order to have a relationship it takes both people giving 50 percent...no one is superior to the other-sorry i was ranting lol
2007-02-27 17:20:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say it depends on the situation but personally i'd prefer the guy to make the first move, mostly because i have no courage at all. But i've made the first move before so as i said...it just depends.
2007-02-27 17:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by m3_mY$3Lf_! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl and the guy. If the guy is shy, it works when the girl makes the move...and vice versa.
I tend to get the shy guys because I make the move. :D
2007-02-27 17:17:04 · answer #9 · answered by ladygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If married, the girl....if not married the guy. Too much for a girl to give up without the benefit of marriage.
2007-02-27 17:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋