O.K. My girlfriend finished with me on Sunday, things had been going downhill anyway,and the stress of it all had caused me to have an eating disorder which I told her about, & said i was seeing a doctor bout it,she felt 'we' couldnt continue.We had dated 4 a year. She said she didnt want me contacting her, & that she wanted 2 weeks. I spoke to her today,she said that for my sake, 2 weeks was best to get over her,& then we'd have to see what happened. I said, in 2 weeks, if I ask u out 4 a drink as friends,would u want2?She said that it'd depend on how 'I (Not her!)' felt, bcos it isn't always easy..... the thing is....i still like her,& i know if I cured my prob,she may hav me bak,but i doubt it. so questions...has anyone had a situation lyk ths?is it best to meet her aftr 2 weeks,wht shud i say?shud i just never speak 2her again?
please can i have some long answers! if i didnt ever meet/talk again, would i feel worse, than if i met her4drink.are there essentials2feel b4meet?
2007-02-27 09:08:54 · 2 answers · asked by Soliloquy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
send her a text..short and sweet
2007-02-27 09:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by Bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello ive been dating this guy for four years, just recently we decided that it is best forr us to go our seperate ways for a lot of reasons. Well to make a long story short, it hurts sometimes when you not say lose someone close to you , but someone that you are used to talking to and seeing but to stay involved somewhere that is not happy is very unheathly for you mentally and physically it drains you it has lots of side effects of course im pretty sure you already know that. Basically my advice to you let it go if its meant for you it will come back, god never lets his children suffer. With that said just be thankful for life its not hard we tend to make it hard your to blessed to be stressed.
2007-02-27 09:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by lovelife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋